I've really got to learn to just do the damage and get out of town. It's the 'stay and gloat' that gets me every time.

Ethan Rayne ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Nov 17, 2020 8:11:33 am PST #7331 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

Having dinner tonight with my DIL's mother. She is determined to fix the strain between my son and his wife and my husband. I enjoy her company, but don't think she can accomplish miracles.


DavidS - Nov 17, 2020 11:54:16 am PST #7332 of 8208
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I enjoy her company, but don't think she can accomplish miracles.

Maybe she's going to lace the five-layer dip with Ecstasy.


Laura - Nov 17, 2020 12:19:46 pm PST #7333 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

We are going to our favorite Sushi/Thai place. So at least I know a happy belly will happen. Nice day so we can eat outside too.


sj - Nov 17, 2020 1:24:51 pm PST #7334 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Guess who still can’t move her arm and also has a uti?


amyparker - Nov 17, 2020 2:04:06 pm PST #7335 of 8208
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

OW.


Pix - Nov 17, 2020 2:38:35 pm PST #7336 of 8208
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Oh Laura, I’m just catching up on everything happening with your younger son. I’m so incredibly sorry. This must feel like such a blow after how close you have always been. I suspect he and his DIL will realize they are being asses eventually, but no one deserves this less than you and B. Much love to you.

Also, yikes, sj! So sorry you’re dealing with so much pain and discomfort!


sj - Nov 17, 2020 2:57:07 pm PST #7337 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Pix.


sj - Nov 17, 2020 2:58:13 pm PST #7338 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Laura, I’ve been nodding along in sympathy but haven’t had a lot of spoons to respond.


WindSparrow - Nov 17, 2020 4:35:46 pm PST #7339 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

What the hecking heck, sj? Rough stuff.

Happy tummy, Laura.

We have worked so hard for eight months (longer actually, my staff noticed news reports of impending pandemic in January and started extra-vigilant cleaning at the group home then without me saying a word) to protect the people we support and ourselves. I'm so angry at careless, foolish maskholes.


askye - Nov 18, 2020 4:34:45 am PST #7340 of 8208
Thrive to spite them

sj that socks. I hope yours is as bad as mine is. Also I highly recommend taking D Mannose (its the sugar in cranberry) if it's a mild enough UTI it can help reduce the duration and also it can help prevent it. Inhave started taking it again every day. It's not irritating like cranberry can be.

Laura I hope that this dinner will help start to repair your relationship with your son and his wife.