May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.

Mal ,'Bushwhacked'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SailAweigh - Nov 20, 2019 10:15:08 am PST #6672 of 8212
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I am so sorry to hear about Leo, Zen. Much ~ma to you and the other kitties.

I think the way I've been trying to deal with the plantar fasciitis pain has put more pressure on my right foot (my shorter leg) along the ball of the foot.

Askye, when I had pain in the ball of my foot like that it turned out I had what is called a plantar plate tear. Check your toes to see if you're developing a hammertoe, that's usually a sign of a tear. It might have something to do with leg length, because I'm the same way, my right leg is shorter than my left.


askye - Nov 20, 2019 4:12:19 pm PST #6673 of 8212
Thrive to spite them

Thanks Sail. I may have the start of hammertoes. I'm not sure. The first week of dec I'm going to call and get appointments.

I also am realizing that the store I work in is just too big and too much going on for me. Christmas season will be a struggle. Sensory overload and having all the people ...coworkers and customers...to deal with. I did tell my supervisor I wish I could spend most of my time just on cleaning things up and projects and taking to customers on the sales floor rather than being at the register and we briefly talked about me coming in early 1 day a week to do recovery (clean up) working 7 am to 4 PM. I am going to follow up with her about it.


Laura - Nov 21, 2019 4:19:20 am PST #6674 of 8212
Our wings are not tired.

Yes askye, getting ahead of it is a good plan.


askye - Nov 21, 2019 5:54:32 am PST #6675 of 8212
Thrive to spite them

Thanks Laura. I was so tired when I wrote that I didn't remember it. I found some ear protection muffs that, according to the reviews, do a good job of blocking out voices. Which will help at home and I may even take them to work to use on my breaks next weekend.


Dana - Nov 24, 2019 4:13:43 pm PST #6676 of 8212
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I have to figure out how to find a therapist here, and I'm dreading it.


amyparker - Nov 24, 2019 4:29:17 pm PST #6677 of 8212
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

Dana, that's hard. Anyone local you'd feel comfortable asking for a recommendation?


Dana - Nov 24, 2019 4:33:34 pm PST #6678 of 8212
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Nope. Only family. Who I love and appreciate, but we do not have those discussions.

Like, I found someone who gets good reviews, and I have to decide how worried to be that she offers "Christian counseling" upon request. I mean, this is Texas.


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2019 4:55:40 pm PST #6679 of 8212
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Dana, you might already know this, but Psychology Today has a directory of therapists: [link] It's a good place to start.


Dana - Nov 24, 2019 5:25:09 pm PST #6680 of 8212
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Okay, I realize I cannot make a decision solely on this basis, but one of the people listed there has her dog in the office for sessions.


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2019 5:26:35 pm PST #6681 of 8212
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I...might have made a decision solely on that basis, if I hadn't found my therapist.