There's more than one way to skin a cat. And I happen to know that's factually true.

Mayor ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Aug 27, 2019 9:49:08 am PDT #6226 of 8214
Our wings are not tired.

Rush that test ~ma!


sj - Aug 28, 2019 3:08:21 am PDT #6227 of 8214
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

My first mammogram was fine. Results were normal.


Laura - Aug 28, 2019 3:42:56 am PDT #6228 of 8214
Our wings are not tired.

Yay, even when we know tests results will be fine it is a relief. There is still an underlying stress waiting.


Tom Scola - Aug 31, 2019 4:17:08 am PDT #6229 of 8214
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Went to a party last night. I didn't know anyone except the host, I ended up not talking to anyone, and I had to leave quickly because of anxiety.

I failed at being social. Again.


Laura - Aug 31, 2019 4:20:13 am PDT #6230 of 8214
Our wings are not tired.

You went! I call that a win. I'm sorry you were disappointed.


Shir - Aug 31, 2019 8:06:07 am PDT #6231 of 8214
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I'm with Laura. It is a win.

For me, the past two years have been an exercise in trying to figure out how to handle parties of very beloved friends who have really terrible people in them (who hurt me/other people I consider as friends in the past). Said beloved friends don't know about these incidents because I'd hate to bring other people's past to the present of people's relationships and choices. It made me miss parties and events more than once, and it's starting to bug me.


javachik - Aug 31, 2019 9:52:19 am PDT #6232 of 8214
Our wings are not tired.

Tom, as someone who entertains a lot, and makes it a priority to connect people, I'd say that's actually a host fail, not a you fail. I wish you lived closer so that you come over for the low-key things I host. I am glad you went, and I'm sorry it ended up with you not feeling good about it.


-t - Aug 31, 2019 10:11:41 am PDT #6233 of 8214
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm with Laura, Tom. You went, that's a win! And recognizing that leaving would be better for than staying is also a win. Good for you!


Steph L. - Aug 31, 2019 10:16:01 am PDT #6234 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Tom, I wouldn't even go to a party where the only person I knew was the host. No way. So the fact that you went is actually a win.


Tom Scola - Aug 31, 2019 10:17:07 am PDT #6235 of 8214
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

It wasn't planned that way; I just wasn't sure who was going to show up.