Oh, at first it was confusing. Just the idea of computers was like — whoa! I'm eleven hundred years old! I had trouble adjusting to the idea of Lutherans.

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aurelia - May 15, 2019 7:34:44 am PDT #5887 of 8216
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Scrappy is younger? He may want to play more/rougher than she does. He may need an another outlet for his energy. Maybe try engaging him with a toy when that happens or if you notice he's looking restless.


askye - May 15, 2019 7:49:54 am PDT #5888 of 8216
Thrive to spite them

Yeah he is about 11 months old. We have been playing with him . With all the costs but obviously not enough. I've been running Jim around with the laser pointer


Katerina Bee - May 15, 2019 9:15:17 am PDT #5889 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

I had two cats who didn't get along. Sometimes I'd separate them by exiling one to the spare bedroom for a few hours.

Don't worry: there was food, water, a litter box and a window to look out. The shy cat was relieved for some quiet time, and the aggressive one quickly got lonely. They never liked each other, but learned to mostly ignore their annoying sister cat.


EpicTangent - May 15, 2019 9:41:49 am PDT #5890 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I did similar when we adopted a rambunctious male kitten - our 12 year old lady cat had a similar problem. I ended up just designating my room as her safe space, and he just wasn't allowed in there.


Toddson - May 15, 2019 9:53:47 am PDT #5891 of 8216
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

My sister had a similar issue - she had an older cat who had been declawed, only had three teeth and was blind in one eye. She adopted a young, larger male cat who basically beat up on the old cat. He died young and she adopted another cat, one who'd been a pet, then was feral, then captured and sort-of socialized, who did much the same. I don't think she ever came up with a way to protect the old cat.


Steph L. - May 15, 2019 10:06:04 am PDT #5892 of 8216
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Murderbiscuit really wanted to play with Slinky, who was 20 or 21 when we adopted him. Slinky would have none of it, and if we didn't intervene, she was determined to teach him a painful lesson.


Toddson - May 15, 2019 10:13:49 am PDT #5893 of 8216
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I was once talking to some neighbors who have dogs and one commented about her dog's boundaries, to which I asked "Boundaries?" in amazement. Then mentioned I'd grown up with cats who not only had boundaries, but were quite capable of enforcing them.


Vortex - May 15, 2019 10:20:31 am PDT #5894 of 8216
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

When you're walking down the hall at work and hear two lawyer colleagues discussing masks that restrict breathing and you do a double take before you realize they're talking about altitude training, not breath play.


askye - May 15, 2019 12:42:48 pm PDT #5895 of 8216
Thrive to spite them

Penny is 7 so not elderly but not a kitten. She is also a pudgy out of shape cat. She got back in shape when she was allowed outside when I was living with mom but I don't want to do that here. So she could use some exercise too.

I think we have to up the laser pointer play that seems to really work him out. And also find all the toys that have rolled under furniture so there is stuff to play with.

We were doing this thing where we would close one cat in at night with us so they have some one on one time with us.

There is also Duchess , Matthew's cat, who is almost 3. She is a tiny thing and sometimes Scrappy will chase after her but not as often. Occasionally she'll go after Penny or Scrappy but not as much.

I think we should have been a bit slower in introducing them .


meara - May 15, 2019 12:44:16 pm PDT #5896 of 8216

Lol, Vortex, I would have though that too. What are they climbing Everest or something? Who does that??