No. And yes. It's always sudden.

Tara ,'Storyteller'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Katerina Bee - Mar 22, 2019 8:31:03 am PDT #5548 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

I've tried several times to look for a kitty, but I just can't pull the trigger and commit. They never look right, somehow. That's why it was awesome to have Ellie walk up to our door and make friends with Sophie through the glass. Fate favored our cat family that day!

I have a lot of unreasonable demands for my next cat. I want a polydactyl with a puffy tail and blue eyes that I can raise as a bottle baby so it will imprint on me like Sophie and Pearlie have.

Probably the puffy tail is going to be the easiest to find.

Thanks for saying a kitty will be lucky to have me. I really do want them to be happy and secure.


Laura - Mar 22, 2019 9:52:14 am PDT #5549 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

Most of my animals have found me. When the time is right it happens. I may have to get a dog soon though because Brendon is just too lonely without his truck companion. When he picks up is keys to go for a ride somewhere he gets a jolt every time that no one is wagging a tale to join him.


WindSparrow - Mar 22, 2019 10:43:12 am PDT #5550 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Speaking of kitties and love, I found this shirt that I think Windsparrow and Harvey would love:

Idea, brilliant. Execution? NSM. 95% polyester. Too much sweat in that sweatshirt.

I have have only vague ideas of what to do about purposefully going out and getting a cat. I mean, I know that shelters and rescues exist. I know the names of the local ones. I know which pet stores foster rescues. And I know how to use a phone to make appointments to talk to people for foster-based rescues. I'm guessing that's what you do. But my cats have always chosen me. If one does not simply show up, and we end up going to a rescue, I don't know if I will end up accepting any little gesture as a "choice".


Topic!Cindy - Mar 22, 2019 11:24:34 am PDT #5551 of 8216
What is even happening?

I have a lot of unreasonable demands for my next cat. I want a polydactyl with a puffy tail and blue eyes that I can raise as a bottle baby so it will imprint on me like Sophie and Pearlie have.

I know what this means. I had a polydactyl cat (although we just called it "doubled-pawed"), but polydactyl will never not look like some kind of dinosaur to me.


EpicTangent - Mar 22, 2019 11:43:03 am PDT #5552 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

But my cats have always chosen me. If one does not simply show up, and we end up going to a rescue, I don't know if I will end up accepting any little gesture as a "choice".

This is where I'm at. I've looked around on Petfinder and stuff, but other than once finding one amazingly perfect specimen that, upon closer examination, was in Cincinatti (really, Petfinder, on what planet is Cincinatti "near" San Diego), it's never felt right.


Atropa - Mar 22, 2019 11:59:10 am PDT #5553 of 8216
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

We've been looking on Petfinder off and on, because Vlad needs a kitten to play with, as Miss Erzabet No Biting is done with his crazypaws chase, pounce, and general bro antics. Mr. Loomy really, REALLY wants a grey boy kitty, which are surprisingly hard to find in the Seattle area.


EpicTangent - Mar 22, 2019 1:17:56 pm PDT #5554 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Mr. Loomy really, REALLY wants a grey boy kitty, which are surprisingly hard to find in the Seattle area.

Natural camouflage.


WindSparrow - Mar 22, 2019 4:09:02 pm PDT #5555 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I've looked around on Petfinder and stuff, but other than once finding one amazingly perfect specimen that, upon closer examination, was in Cincinatti (really, Petfinder, on what planet is Cincinatti "near" San Diego), it's never felt right.

Mars. On Mars, Cincinnati and San Diego look much closer together.

Hey, has anyone ever seen Petfinder and Spirit in the same room?


Katerina Bee - Mar 22, 2019 7:39:11 pm PDT #5556 of 8216
Herding cats for fun

Going to the shelter during kitten season was so terrible I had nightmares for weeks. So many little faces, and they all had kennel cough. I freaked out and escaped, sad to say.

Probably calling a rescuer group would be more palatable for the likes of me, but I'm afraid I might not measure up to all the requirements I've heard of. Some rule you out if you are too old. Maybe that's reasonable, but I'm likely to last another 15 to 18 years.

Anyone who finds me a mitten kitten, alert the media!


WindSparrow - Mar 23, 2019 4:13:04 am PDT #5557 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Some rescue groups that might prefer not to put a kitten in the home of an older person will happily consider senior cats for senior people. Since they consider senior to be 7ish and older (for the cats) that leaves a potential for quite a number of happy, active years together.

ETA: And not all rescue groups have the same policies and procedures. Calling them up and talking with them might be the best way to find out.