That's my girl... That's my good girl.

Kaylee ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Feb 19, 2019 5:22:05 pm PST #5340 of 8260
The status is NOT quo.

Where did beekaytee's posts go?


Laura - Feb 20, 2019 2:51:45 am PST #5341 of 8260
Our wings are not tired.

She deleted, but her post in Press is still there. Mystery.

Come back beekaytee!


Connie Neil - Feb 20, 2019 6:46:02 pm PST #5342 of 8260
brillig

I'm afraid my anxiety meds are losing their oomph. Or maybe a long cold winter with health stress is just dragging on me. It'll be lighter when I leave work soon, and creeping warmer(ish). I wonder if SAD is something you can acquire.


Vortex - Feb 20, 2019 8:31:46 pm PST #5343 of 8260
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Question -- is the phrase "Tipping is not a city in China" (referring to tipping a server in a restaurant) offensive/culturally insensitive? It is currently a matter of debate amongst some friends. I have an opinion, but am trying to ask the question in a neutral manner.


DebetEsse - Feb 20, 2019 9:19:24 pm PST #5344 of 8260
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Sort of like "denial isn't just a river in Egypt"? Only there's not a near-miss homophone, which makes it pretty "ching-chong-ding-dong" in my book, and best avoided.

Like, if you're gonna make a pun, make an actual pun. But it should be based on a real word, English or not.


billytea - Feb 20, 2019 10:11:25 pm PST #5345 of 8260
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I solicited Biyi's opinion on this question. She doesn't find it offensive, but did raise a bit of an eyebrow at it. (For what it's worth, both 'ti' and 'ping' are valid syllables in Mandarin, but I don't think there's even any word in Chinese that combines them.)


meara - Feb 21, 2019 4:51:53 am PST #5346 of 8260

I've never heard that phrase before, but if there isn't a Tipping, China, I'm going lean on "sounds racist and even if it's not there's a better way to say whatever it is you're trying to get across"


Dana - Feb 21, 2019 5:03:24 am PST #5347 of 8260
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Yeah, sure it could be worse, but if you have to stop and think about it, probably best not to say it.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 21, 2019 10:36:54 am PST #5348 of 8260
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

if you have to stop and think about it, probably best not to say it.

This is my theory.


Toddson - Feb 21, 2019 10:43:35 am PST #5349 of 8260
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Think twice, speak once?