It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jessica - Feb 01, 2019 3:35:34 am PST #5163 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

A is *16*?!?!?!!!

(I have nothing to add on the gender stuff but I am constantly gobsmacked at how fast other people's kids have grown up.)


Laura - Feb 01, 2019 3:37:33 am PST #5164 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

I know, Jessica! I mean mine are grown men, but yours are obviously toddlers.


meara - Feb 01, 2019 6:31:04 am PST #5165 of 8216

Wow yeah, didn't realize A was that old, geez!!


Deena - Feb 01, 2019 7:51:26 am PST #5166 of 8216
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

It's weird to me, and I live with him! He's within an inch of 6 foot tall!

Meara, PM, insent.

eta: Thanks for the instagram linkup. Kara will find that interesting too!


askye - Feb 01, 2019 8:52:59 am PST #5167 of 8216
Thrive to spite them

I know a lot of people left Tumblr because of the new restrictions but there were blogs there of people who are different genders and gender expression.

There are some closed groups on FB for people who are autistic and gender nonconforming/trans and there may be some secret groups. I could ask in the groups I'm in.

Not sure if A uses FB.

Pinterest can be a good source for make up and clothing ideas.


Deena - Feb 01, 2019 9:02:34 am PST #5168 of 8216
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

A is mostly about youtube, but I can show him some things and let him think about it. I'd appreciate it if you'd check, Askye, thanks.


erikaj - Feb 01, 2019 11:51:10 am PST #5169 of 8216
Always Anti-fascist!

Mom is at tax preparer...can I get some vibes for good news?


lisah - Feb 01, 2019 1:34:44 pm PST #5170 of 8216
Punishingly Intricate

I follow this guy on YouTube, Deena. [link]

I haven't seen alls his vids so I can't vouch 100% for kid friendliness but the ones I've seen are pretty dang fun! And he features budget friendly brands.


Deena - Feb 01, 2019 2:49:01 pm PST #5171 of 8216
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

We all just went to the Dollar Tree and they have Wet N Wild polish! So that was fun. A says he doesn't need any colors right now, but now we know where to find them.

Lisah, thanks! I've got it marked so I can check it out with A later.

Good news vibes, Erika.


sj - Feb 01, 2019 3:54:39 pm PST #5172 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Deena, you're such a good mom! I can't believe A is sixteen! I delurked when you were pregnant with him!