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Laura - Dec 20, 2018 8:06:42 am PST #4930 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, sj. The pictures that you have posted of joyful ltc have brought many smiles to my face.

There have been a few pangs of empty nest feelings with the kids not living here this year, but them not living here the rest of the year balances that! Just kidding as in I generally like having them around and miss them more than I expected. Good to report that having so many of Mom's things around has helped with missing her quite a lot. Unpacking and putting out her Christmas treasures has brought only good feelings. She lived well until she was 95 and although I will always miss her I feel she was ready to rest.

Of course I am not complete with my preparations at all, but I'll just do what I can. I'll be late with my Buffista gift only because I have the parts but need to do some assembly. Also really need to make my list for Christmas dinner ingredients.


sj - Dec 20, 2018 8:32:57 am PST #4931 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Epic, it's both. I just don't have the energy to do everything that needs to get done, and I get so overwhelmed every year.


Amy - Dec 20, 2018 8:35:13 am PST #4932 of 8218
Because books.

I was there on Tuesday, sj, especially after trying to very special Christmas Math, which did not work as well as I wanted.

::hugs:: Maybe just try to enjoy the things you like to do, and let the rest slide?


sj - Dec 20, 2018 8:38:57 am PST #4933 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I have everything bought, but I have to wrap it all and my hands hurt. It May all end up in gift bags this year. And I bought a gingerbread house kit for ltc. My house is a disaster, but we're not hosting any of the festivities so I don't care.

I'm supposed to go to a book signing tonight. I can't decide if that will make me feel better or worse.


EpicTangent - Dec 20, 2018 8:56:52 am PST #4934 of 8218
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

That's what gift bags are for, sj. My hands don't hurt, and I used to wrap gifts professionally, and most of mine will still be in bags. And like you said, you're not hosting, so the house can wait. Do what you MUST do before Tuesday, and give yourself permission to slide on whatever can wait. Try not to beat yourself up, K?


Laura - Dec 20, 2018 9:12:29 am PST #4935 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.

Yeah, as I looked at the mess in my house I am torn between gratitude that I am not hosting anything and regret that I don't have that hanging over me to make me do something about said mess.


sj - Dec 20, 2018 9:16:22 am PST #4936 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I used to wrap professionally too. So a certain effort is expected. My inlaws are here, and I'm going to bed. I'm trying not to cry so they won't hear me.


Dana - Dec 20, 2018 9:27:48 am PST #4937 of 8218
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

That is entirely what gift bags are for. My mother wraps presents beautifully, and I absorbed nothing of it. I mean, I can enclose a rectangle-ish shape in wrapping paper and tape, but it won't necessarily be pretty. Or symmetrical. But ribbons and stuff? No way. Even with gift bags I feel like my tissue isn't artistic enough.


sj - Dec 20, 2018 9:33:06 am PST #4938 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm good at artistic tissue.


Steph L. - Dec 20, 2018 9:43:48 am PST #4939 of 8218
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I used to wrap professionally too. So a certain effort is expected.

Fuck expectations. Do what will meet your needs and take care of you. If someone seriously has a problem with *how* a gift is presented, fuck them and take the gift back. I mean, it's a *gift*. It's something given out of generosity. If the receiver is petty enough to have a problem with it being in a bag instead of wrapped, fuck them and take care of yourself. What the shit. Your mental and emotional needs right now are VASTLY more important than someone's expectation that they get a gift wrapped instead of in a gift bag. In fact, someone's expectation of *how* their gift is presented is of ZERO importance. It has negative importance.

Use the gift bags.