I was there on Tuesday, sj, especially after trying to very special Christmas Math, which did not work as well as I wanted.
::hugs:: Maybe just try to enjoy the things you like to do, and let the rest slide?
Wow, you've really mastered the power of positive giving-up.
Cordelia ,'End of Days'
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Amy - Dec 20, 2018 8:35:13 am PST #4932 of 8218
Because books.
sj - Dec 20, 2018 8:38:57 am PST #4933 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I have everything bought, but I have to wrap it all and my hands hurt. It May all end up in gift bags this year. And I bought a gingerbread house kit for ltc. My house is a disaster, but we're not hosting any of the festivities so I don't care.
I'm supposed to go to a book signing tonight. I can't decide if that will make me feel better or worse.
EpicTangent - Dec 20, 2018 8:56:52 am PST #4934 of 8218
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
That's what gift bags are for, sj. My hands don't hurt, and I used to wrap gifts professionally, and most of mine will still be in bags. And like you said, you're not hosting, so the house can wait. Do what you MUST do before Tuesday, and give yourself permission to slide on whatever can wait. Try not to beat yourself up, K?
Laura - Dec 20, 2018 9:12:29 am PST #4935 of 8218
Our wings are not tired.
Yeah, as I looked at the mess in my house I am torn between gratitude that I am not hosting anything and regret that I don't have that hanging over me to make me do something about said mess.
sj - Dec 20, 2018 9:16:22 am PST #4936 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I used to wrap professionally too. So a certain effort is expected. My inlaws are here, and I'm going to bed. I'm trying not to cry so they won't hear me.
Dana - Dec 20, 2018 9:27:48 am PST #4937 of 8218
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
That is entirely what gift bags are for. My mother wraps presents beautifully, and I absorbed nothing of it. I mean, I can enclose a rectangle-ish shape in wrapping paper and tape, but it won't necessarily be pretty. Or symmetrical. But ribbons and stuff? No way. Even with gift bags I feel like my tissue isn't artistic enough.
sj - Dec 20, 2018 9:33:06 am PST #4938 of 8218
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I'm good at artistic tissue.
Steph L. - Dec 20, 2018 9:43:48 am PST #4939 of 8218
I look more rad than Lutheranism
I used to wrap professionally too. So a certain effort is expected.
Fuck expectations. Do what will meet your needs and take care of you. If someone seriously has a problem with *how* a gift is presented, fuck them and take the gift back. I mean, it's a *gift*. It's something given out of generosity. If the receiver is petty enough to have a problem with it being in a bag instead of wrapped, fuck them and take care of yourself. What the shit. Your mental and emotional needs right now are VASTLY more important than someone's expectation that they get a gift wrapped instead of in a gift bag. In fact, someone's expectation of *how* their gift is presented is of ZERO importance. It has negative importance.
Use the gift bags.
meara - Dec 20, 2018 10:17:57 am PST #4940 of 8218
I can wrap nicely but mostly it seems wasteful to me! To be fair though this year I am sending unwrapped presents to my family via amazon, so...
Atropa - Dec 20, 2018 10:19:31 am PST #4941 of 8218
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
1. Teppy is wise. Reread that entire post.
2. Gift bags. Gift bags! I am team gift bags. I am terrible at gift wrapping. (Also I hate doing it, as it was one of my holiday chores growing up.)