She's terse. I can be terse. Once in flight school, I was laconic.

Wash ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Dec 11, 2018 10:46:56 am PST #4850 of 8235
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Ads for weighted blankets keep following me around Facebook doggedly, and I'm thinking about backing this Kickstarter for one: [link] I know that Tim would love it (when he was a kid, he used to get between his mattress and box spring). (It's really really helpful to be married to someone who's non-neurotypical.)


Laura - Dec 11, 2018 11:00:11 am PST #4851 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

Nice! I love how they way more than met their fundraising goal.


sj - Dec 11, 2018 12:57:53 pm PST #4852 of 8235
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Shit. My friend T wasn't responding to texts or calls lately. So, I knew something was wrong. I finally got in touch with her and her husband is in the hospital on a respirator because of fluid on his lungs. I'm actually just as worried about T as her DH. She already had a stroke young and has high blood pressure. She doesn't handle this kind of stress well. Any ~ma you can spare for them please.


Laura - Dec 11, 2018 1:07:45 pm PST #4853 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

Oh dear, sj. Calm~ma for your friend and recovery~ma for her DH.


askye - Dec 11, 2018 3:20:53 pm PST #4854 of 8235
Thrive to spite them

Weighted blankets are the bomb. I got mine from Sensacalm. I got the 25 lb which at times feels too heavy but usually is perfect.

I'm still stuck at home. The landlady only plows the plowed snow at the entrance of the road. The rest of it we are supposed to deal with on our own. Someone got out with a combination of shoveling and driving over snow but they have All Wheel Drive and higher clearance on their car.

So I'm here for another day. I'm hoping it will melt more tomorrow. But I'm glad I don't have to walk down the car. I put a video up on FB of part of my walk up.


askye - Dec 11, 2018 3:21:35 pm PST #4855 of 8235
Thrive to spite them

Sj lots of calm~ma and healing ~ma to your friends.


Maria - Dec 11, 2018 3:21:55 pm PST #4856 of 8235
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

All the ~ma for T and her DH, sj.


Deena - Dec 12, 2018 5:20:51 am PST #4857 of 8235
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Calm and healing ma to T and her DH.


sj - Dec 13, 2018 4:37:38 am PST #4858 of 8235
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I talked to T for a long time last night. She sounds awful and exhausted. Working and then spending all her time at the hospital. Her DH will be out of work for at least a year while recovering.


Hil R. - Dec 13, 2018 2:54:21 pm PST #4859 of 8235
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Lots of ~ma for T and her family.

I just got done with a ridiculous day of work. Proctored an exam for two hours (600 students and three proctors for about half the time, until the fourth proctor showed up), then had the faculty holiday party (salad, and the saddest fajita ever), then six hours of grading exams. And a bunch of emails from students who want higher grades. And seeing the doctor tomorrow morning, because I'm still coughing.