That's probably because the writers misspelled it in the script.
Mal ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
der vs dar
Well, der. I looked at what you typed a bunch of times, even checking the ending and didn't see it. Time for stronger reading glasses (or a brain transplant).
Oh hey, I just looked it up. Calender or Callender is a real surname, "occupational name for a person who finished freshly woven cloth by passing it between heavy rollers to compress the weave." Now that I know that, it'll be easier to remember how to spell the other calendar!
Brain transplants are so risky, though. They can cause personality changes and memory loss. Some people say they feel like a totally different person! IDK, Cindy, I wouldn't do it.
looking at Zenkitty.
blinking at Windsparrow
I just got an email from someone I haven't met. According to her email sig, she's working here; she's just new and we haven't met yet. She's asking how to get access to the software I'm in charge of, completely legit thing to inquire about. For some reason my brain is having the most Regency reaction, "She emailed me directly when we haven't been introduced! How uncouth!"
If you have a meeting, will you need a chaperone?
Of course! Think of my reputation! I am an unmarried woman!
She could have dropped off a calling card at least.