You two carried me through that war. Now I need you to carry me just a little bit further. If you can.

Tracy ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Aug 15, 2018 7:08:56 pm PDT #4234 of 8234
The status is NOT quo.

I am so sorry, Epic. Peace and strength to you and your family.


Karl - Aug 16, 2018 2:14:24 pm PDT #4235 of 8234
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Ease~ma to you and yours, Epic. I'm so sorry.


P.M. Marc - Aug 16, 2018 2:58:54 pm PDT #4236 of 8234
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I am so sorry, Epic.


meara - Aug 16, 2018 7:41:04 pm PDT #4237 of 8234

Things nobody told me about getting older: the length of my cycle keeps getting shorter. Apparently that happens when your ovaries get old? I do not need MORE erupts, y'all!!! Also, I think more cramps. But maybe that's just my "I took pain meds this afternoon and then forgot to take more until after they wore off" talking.


DavidS - Aug 16, 2018 8:32:48 pm PDT #4238 of 8234
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Things nobody told me about getting older: the length of my cycle keeps getting shorter. Apparently that happens when your ovaries get old?

JZ is having this issue. Or rather more specifically her cycle is short and highly regular now where it used to be irregular in her youth and not uncommon to have only a handful during the course of a year.


javachik - Aug 16, 2018 11:48:56 pm PDT #4239 of 8234
Our wings are not tired.

I kind of think that's JZ's info to share? I dunno but it's weird to me for you to share it...?


askye - Aug 17, 2018 3:32:03 am PDT #4240 of 8234
Thrive to spite them

meara I'm having the same issue. I talked to the doctor about perimenopause she said that they could come as frequently as every 14 days and then kind of stop.


Kate P. - Aug 17, 2018 5:08:28 am PDT #4241 of 8234
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

A shorter cycle is the main reason I wanted an IUD. I mean, yes, also for birth control -- we don't need any more babies 'round here! But I really wanted not to have to worry about bleeding through my clothes every 22 days. Ugh.


Steph L. - Aug 17, 2018 5:34:40 am PDT #4242 of 8234
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

A shorter cycle is the main reason I wanted an IUD.

I miss my Mirena for that reason alone. I didn't have a period for 10 years and it was fantastic. But now that it's back, it's pretty short, so it's tolerable.


Amy - Aug 17, 2018 5:57:18 am PDT #4243 of 8234
Because books.

I have to say, menopause has been my favorite thing ever, aside from the hot flashes. Those I could live without. But as a trade-off for cramps and heavy bleeding? Manageable.