Do you think pointing out the array of immigrant kitchen staff in restaurants is racist? Because I am now hearing from(thankfully a blessed few) caucasians that ever picked up a dish in the course of their life's journey. I wasn't trying to say they were born for it, or even that that's why I want them here. But I know what the end-game is, that I totally get off course showing off my lack of bias... at the same time, though, just because you get called out by someone trying to provoke you, doesn't make what you said not racist.

Bloodwork is good. I have an appointment with the GI on Thursday. I have been following a very limited diet. Well I had chocolate today but I have been eating plain. It hasn't helped as much as O had hoped. So far the medicine has been the bigger help.

My sister and I just arrived in Seattle on our epic (or maybe not quite epic) Pacific NW road trip. She went out to take a walk a little while ago, and came back and reported, "This entire city is smoking pot."

Welcome to seattle! And yes it does often smell that everyone is busy smoking up

We're skunky, yeah!

I just posted about possible Seattle meet-up plans in F2F.

I've now had two doctors tell me that I'm getting to the age where I shouldn't be on the pill, due to risks of heart attack, stroke, and blood clots. Unfortunately, I think that I'm getting headaches before my period each month, tied to hormones.

The other option for hormonal birth control is the IUD, but I'm a little leery. I know some of you have had painful procedures. Can anyone talk about it, either successful or unsuccessful?

The Nuva Ring wouldn't work? I use that and it's awesome. Or a vasectomy? Damn, I gotta get Tom to Planned Parenthood for one.

If you get the Mirena IUD placed (I always want to say "installed") when you're at the tail end of your period, it shouldn't be terrible, because your cervix is softer during that part of your cycle. That said, I would take ibuprofen and/or Tylenol before you go.

When my first Mirena expired after 5 years and I had a second one placed, that was pretty painful, and my theoretical third Mirena (5 years after #2) didn't happen because apparently my cervix is made of steel and the OB/GYN could not get the IUD placed. (I think that particular experience makes me an extreme outlier, though. Don't place a whole lot of weight on that one.)

I loved my IUDs, even with the pain of getting the second one placed, partly because I stopped getting a period, which was glorious. Plus it's pretty foolproof birth control. (After the failure of placing IUD #3, Tim just got snipped. It was really the only other foolproof option we were comfortable with.)

Husband got a vasectomy years ago, so the only consideration is how the hormones would affect my headaches. The actual effectiveness doesn't really matter.

I like the sound of the implant, but it doesn't have estrogen, which may or may not help or hurt the headaches. It's fucking complicated, and my head is stupid.