On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - May 27, 2017 9:18:46 am PDT #393 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Possibly I need more sleep.


Steph L. - May 27, 2017 9:34:25 am PDT #394 of 8185
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I had Graeter's Ice cream! They had it at the grocery store. Bourbon Pecan chocolate chip. soooo good and very boozy

I haven't tried that one! But I need to. Yum!


smonster - May 27, 2017 12:22:27 pm PDT #395 of 8185
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I love a bourbon chocolate pecan pie, so that sounds amazing.

Right now I'm so hot and sweaty all I can think about eating is a frozen yogurt mint chocolate chip bar. The humidity is ramping up for summer and I just spent six hours carefully deconstructing the middle third of a tomb roof with my two colleagues. We did good for two brokedown 40-somethings and a pregnant lady. At one point I was sitting on the roof of a neighboring tomb with my legs almost in a straddle split reaching down into the tomb to haul out a 1/2" thick piece of slate 36"x 36". I wrote "demo and general badassery" on my timesheet.

For reals, though, I love that job.


SuziQ - May 27, 2017 12:28:49 pm PDT #396 of 8185
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Fourth trip to the doc in 2 weeks today.

Beekaytee, I hope the anti's and pro's help and keep you away from the doc for a third time.

i managed to get some paperwork crap

That does sound like some paperwork BS.

Bourbon Pecan chocolate chip

OMG...that sounds utterly delicious and so completely against my food plans. I have been splurging way too much lately, so I'm buckling down and trying so hard to resist temptation.

Today, CJ and I have been talking about his need to make plans in order to reach his academic and future career goals. I was advocating for listing goals and then breaking them down into smaller goals and then breaking those down to activities and putting them on a calendar. He is so fly by the seat of his pants that this planning stuff is hard to conceive. This then lead to a discussion of my job and how I'm involved in project planning, and breaking the project into tasks and schedule and so forth. I don't think he realized that was part of what I do and that is why I approach things by making lists. In his mind I still do just accounting and playing with numbers. Ok, yes, I do play with numbers but it is more on the analysis side than the processing side. Anyway, not sure if I convinced him to let me help him develop a plan to get through school. His 2 year AA is looking to be a 4 year, minimum, AA.


sj - May 27, 2017 5:47:25 pm PDT #397 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

TCG's stepmother was hospitalized and had surgery today for a bowel blockage. She's doing well, but any ~ma you can spare for a quick recovery would be great.


askye - May 27, 2017 5:56:17 pm PDT #398 of 8185
Thrive to spite them

I made egg custard pie. and the crust. It was kind of a disaster, mostly from not having a pie pan and having to use a flimsy disposable one that wasn't deep enough.

Also I don't like egg custard when it's warm so I'll see how I feel tomorrow after it's been in the fridge. Pie crust turned out ok


WindSparrow - May 27, 2017 6:36:03 pm PDT #399 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

~ma for TCG's stepmother.


WindSparrow - May 27, 2017 7:16:52 pm PDT #400 of 8185
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Bourbon chocolate pecan pie? That sounds like a perfect dessert for a badass like yourself, smonster.

I think sometimes skills like long range planning are so nebulous to someone whose strengths lie in other areas - it's not like balancing a checkbook where the steps are laid out and if you just follow the directions, it'll work. There is a blank spot in the person's mind where the details and concepts that make it work are just not there. Sometimes breaking it down and relating to a more familiar process helps, and I would say if the person is willing to try, finding a lot of examples in different areas of life might help - gaming, art, sport, etc.

Definite improvement on my face - the rash is less red today, takes up less landscape, fewer cracks, less pain.


Laura - May 28, 2017 3:50:06 am PDT #401 of 8185
Our wings are not tired.

Quick recovery~ma for TCG's stepmother.

Good to hear that your lips are less painful, WindSparrow.


juliana - May 28, 2017 8:45:19 am PDT #402 of 8185
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I think sometimes skills like long range planning are so nebulous to someone whose strengths lie in other areas - it's not like balancing a checkbook where the steps are laid out and if you just follow the directions, it'll work. There is a blank spot in the person's mind where the details and concepts that make it work are just not there.

O HAI. It me.

~ma for everyone.

My anxiety is super-high today, and the two cups of coffee did not help.