Just want to scream this where no family Will hear: I Fucking hate Cedar Rapids and wish I'd never moved to this backwater town!!!!!!!
No hair pats nessassary, just needed to vent, carry on.
Waiting for the tequila to kick in.
And the thing is, I like my evil like I like my men: evil. You know, straight up, black hat, tied to the train tracks, soon my electro-ray will destroy metropolis BAD.
Buffy ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
quester - Dec 21, 2017 3:01:07 pm PST #2899 of 8216
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
Gudanov - Dec 21, 2017 4:31:18 pm PST #2900 of 8216
Coding and Sleeping
I've been in Ceder Rapids a few times. To be honest I don't remember anything about it.
quester - Dec 21, 2017 4:52:46 pm PST #2901 of 8216
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
Lots of train tracks.
-t - Dec 21, 2017 5:03:04 pm PST #2902 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I'm sorry, quester. I'll refrain from patting, but you deserve better.
Dana - Dec 21, 2017 6:32:48 pm PST #2903 of 8216
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Amen, tequila.
erikaj - Dec 22, 2017 9:33:33 am PST #2904 of 8216
Always Anti-fascist!
This shouldn't be a backwater town, but it totally is. Feeling your pain--
beekaytee - Dec 22, 2017 11:02:16 am PST #2905 of 8216
Compassionately intolerant
I'm so glad to hear all the reparenting advice folks have gotten from their therapists. Neuro reframing and treating 'as if' are my go-tos.
It seems so obvious now. But if it was that obvious, everybody would be "normal".
It's a wonderful epiphany you had, Connie. I'm so glad or you! And, it is totally not obvious to about 98% of the people you know. Seriously. So many people go their whole lives without even a hint of this possibility for themselves.
beekaytee - Dec 22, 2017 11:03:27 am PST #2906 of 8216
Compassionately intolerant
Funnily enough, I don't remember anything about Cedar Rapids either. Not is a bad way, necessarily...just total amnesia for the place.
quester - Dec 22, 2017 3:57:50 pm PST #2907 of 8216
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
It's just that forgettable.
askye - Dec 23, 2017 8:13:56 pm PST #2908 of 8216
Thrive to spite them
Between us both being sick amd the weather M and I havent seen each other much. But I got down there yesterday.
It was good even if there was the awkwardness last night when we watched Guardians of the Galaxy 2 when we had visited his dad's grave that morning . M had never seen GotG 2 before and I blanked on the whole ending. I realized but couldn't figure out what to say but M wasnt upset at me.
We watched Bright right after which he described as not a good movie but not a terrible one either.