I'm so sorry, Suzi, that's a lot. Take care of yourself. {{{Suzi}}}
Gud, I won't pile on since it's all been said above, but I hope you're feeling better today.
I'm not evil again. Why does everyone think that?
Angel ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
EpicTangent - Dec 04, 2017 6:59:17 am PST #2759 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
WindSparrow - Dec 04, 2017 8:08:11 am PST #2760 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Here is something I posted on Facebook. It is something I want to say not only to you, Gud, but to everyone here. I didn't want to tag anyone on Facebook, so I am reposting it here.
Darlings, you deserve care and respect. You deserve care and respect from other people and from yourself.
If other people are not treating you this way, it is not your fault. The problem is outside of you. It may hurt inside you, but the root cause is not within you.
If you are not able to give care and respect to yourself right now, that is not s sign of how bad and wrong you are. It is a sign of how much you have endured, that you are drowning in pain. If this is where you are, maybe all I can do is weep with you. I wish you could hear Harvey's sweet gentle healing purrs right now. He draped himself across my chest when I started writing this paragraph. He wants to send you love along with mine.
WindSparrow - Dec 04, 2017 8:10:00 am PST #2761 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Suzi, so much heartache. I'm sorry.
sj - Dec 04, 2017 8:38:58 am PST #2762 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Suzi, I'm so very sorry.
Guess who stole half a cup of warm tea this morning and now doesn't want to nap?
Beverly - Dec 04, 2017 8:40:43 am PST #2763 of 8216
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
Suzi, I'm so sorry.
Steph L. - Dec 04, 2017 9:00:50 am PST #2764 of 8216
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Guess who stole half a cup of warm tea this morning and now doesn't want to nap?
Caffeinated toddler!
sj - Dec 04, 2017 9:07:35 am PST #2765 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Yup, Teppy! She's outta luck, sitting in the crib awake because momma needed a shower before the sitter arrives.
sj - Dec 04, 2017 9:07:58 am PST #2766 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Yup, Teppy! She's outta luck, sitting in the crib awake because momma needed a shower before the sitter arrives.
Atropa - Dec 04, 2017 10:00:59 am PST #2767 of 8216
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I remember when toddler Tickybox kept grabbing for Plei's (black) coffee. Plei finally gave her a sip, assuming that it would be too bitter, and Ticky would stop lunging for the cup. Nope, Ticky loved it, and didn't want to give the cup back.
Suzi, I'm so sorry.
Gud, all I will say is that spouses take care of each other, not get angry when the other one is sick. I hope you feel better today.
Zenkitty - Dec 04, 2017 10:06:05 am PST #2768 of 8216
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Oh, Suzi, I'm so sorry. That's all so hard, and too much to have to deal with it all at once. Numb is okay for now, please take care of yourself.
Gud, I've said it all before and there's no use repeating it. The things you say about your wife remind me of my ex, and I can't be polite, so I'll be silent. Except to say, if I had a husband as diligent and generous and caring as you, I'd count myself blessed.