Gud, you are sick. You deserve care and kindness.
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I even suck at being sick.
Your wife sucks at empathy.
There are many times when I'd like to sit Gud's wife down and have a chat with her.
Yes. That.
You do not suck. Your wife is being abusive.
That's awful, Gud. I'm sorry.
There are many times when I'd like to sit Gud's wife down and have a chat with her.
Here. Take my metaphorical baseball bat. You may want it.
I even suck at being sick.
Gud, you have to know this is wrong. You don't get mad at your loved ones for being sick. You have to reverse things, would you get mad at your wife or kids if they got sick in the middle of the night, or would you feel compassion and do what you could to make them feel better? Be honest with yourself and expect to be treated the same as you treat others. Humans, particularly humans that are supposed to be in a loving partnership, don't treat each other that way. At the very least the do unto others rule should apply.
You don't get mad at your loved ones for being sick. You have to reverse things, would you get mad at your wife or kids if they got sick in the middle of the night, or would you feel compassion and do what you could to make them feel better?
This. Gud, can you show some compassion for yourself?
Gud, it makes me sad that your wife is so abusive to you. And it makes me really sad that your kids have to witness it. That's a horrible model for them of how to treat people.