Seriously, this guy needs to go away and not return. He should not be welcome at your home.
'Cuz all he's going to do is bring his fucked up shit into your life.
I'm so sorry, but if it makes you feel any better, my fun-time-Buffy party night involved watching a robot throw Spike through a window, so if you want to trade... no wait, I wouldn't give up that memory for anything.
Buffy ,'Get It Done'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
DavidS - Nov 06, 2017 6:16:23 pm PST #2529 of 8216
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Maria - Nov 06, 2017 6:21:14 pm PST #2530 of 8216
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Ugh, Teppy. You're not wrong in any way, nor are you cruel. I'm sorry this is so fraught.
askye - Nov 06, 2017 6:38:37 pm PST #2531 of 8216
Thrive to spite them
I get anxiety but sometimes it has to be dealt with head on.
askye - Nov 06, 2017 6:46:12 pm PST #2532 of 8216
Thrive to spite them
I thought I would as having a good day at work until I discovered I did something wrong and did it wrong last week. No one told me until today and because it's busy there was no one to help me figure out what I did wrong. I'm going to try and figure it out tomorrow but I'm not sure I'll have anyone to ask. I think the person in shows leaves when I get in and this is a shoe department specific thing.
I'm worried they won't keep me on after Christmas. Probably worried too much but if I can't make this work I'm not sure what I can do.
I'm pmsing and I keep getting super hot at work. Its warm for mist people but I end up red faced and sweating and no one else is having that issue. I have no idea how to handle that.
-t - Nov 06, 2017 6:46:48 pm PST #2533 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I'm sorry, Tep. Good effort on your part, but being done sounds like the right call at this point.
Steph L. - Nov 07, 2017 3:27:04 am PST #2534 of 8216
I look more rad than Lutheranism
He cries when he talks about how he's "banned" from seeing his daughters by GF's mother, and frankly, all I can think is, well, you have fucked up your entire life and don't take any responsibility for that AND you don't take any opportunities to turn things around. I'm sure it's sad that you can't see your girls, but whose fault is that?
Everything is someone else's fault. It's ridiculous.
Anyway, he's off the couch and after working with Tim today he's getting his car out of the driveway and going...somewhere. I don't care where. If he decides he wants to sleep indoors since it's November and will be in the 30s at night, he knows where the homeless shelter that I found yesterday is. That's it. I wash my hands of him.
Laura - Nov 07, 2017 3:59:28 am PST #2535 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.
Everything is someone else's fault. It's ridiculous.
100% this is my son. He has lost every single job he ever had in a short amount of time. Wrecked or lost 4 cars. The list goes on. Takes zero responsibility for any of it. Zero. His loss of his last car and living space were the last straw for me. He can couch surf or go to a shelter.
I do not mean to make it about me!! It is just that lack of taking responsibility for your life when you are an adult that makes me nuts. #1 is 25 and I sincerely hope he figures it out before he is 38!
sj - Nov 07, 2017 4:01:53 am PST #2536 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I really hope he figures it out and gives you some peace, Teppy.
ltc tripped over her own feet, fell flat on her face and split her lip first thing this morning. She is determined to freak me out before I'm even caffeinated every day this week.
Steph L. - Nov 07, 2017 4:40:55 am PST #2537 of 8216
I look more rad than Lutheranism
It is just that lack of taking responsibility for your life when you are an adult that makes me nuts.
Man, me too. Every job he's lost (all of them) is someone else's fault. Not being allowed to see his daughters is his GF's mother's fault. He even said that this entire clusterfuck he's in right now is "the universe trying to punish me." Damn, dude. Be an adult.
askye - Nov 07, 2017 4:54:56 am PST #2538 of 8216
Thrive to spite them
The universe , like everyone else, is telling him to get his act together.
I hope there is less not son drama soon.
I'm struggling today . And yesterday. And today I even had the "I'm a bad person" thought show up in my head. Except I realized what was going on and stopped it.
I go to work at 2 so I'm going to watch comfort tv, eat comfort food and ride this emotions until 11 or so . (I've found giving myself a time frame helps me from spiraling).