Every planet has its own weird customs. About a year before we met, I spent six weeks on a moon where the principal form of recreation was juggling geese. My hand to God. Baby geese. Goslings. They were juggled.

Wash ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Oct 12, 2017 11:16:00 am PDT #2193 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

They can recuperate together and watch cat-based shows on Hulu.

Some of our cats have enjoyed sports on TV (fascinated by the moving ball, I think). Which is not to say that either Tim or the kitten would.

When we watch TV, Murderbiscuit either curls up in the heated bed or squishes between us on the couch. He generally falls asleep, but sometimes he actually watches the TV *really* intently. He seems to be a Brooklyn Nine-Nine fan.


SuziQ - Oct 12, 2017 11:20:26 am PDT #2194 of 8214
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

But she doesn't have any inclination to ask or to wait if she's worked up and you're not totally focused on her. It's a little exhausting.

I have this issue with Crowley. I've been trying to bell train him. We did it with Jack and it works great for him. Every time I let him out in the back yard, he has to touch some hanging bells with his nose. Then it is out, do your business. If you are just wandering around, we go back in. There is a period of time where you have to respond to every bell ring, until they connect bells = business. Crowley will ring the bells when I ask him to, but he doesn't do it on his own.


brenda m - Oct 12, 2017 12:00:42 pm PDT #2195 of 8214
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I've suggested that, might have to push harder. I have no doubt she could learn it.

She's such a hoot, otherwise. Always on a mission.


Hil R. - Oct 12, 2017 4:27:43 pm PDT #2196 of 8214
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Blah. I think I'm getting a cold. I was supposed to go visit my friend and her new baby tomorrow, but if I'm still feeling like this then, then I won't. (I'm just coughing a bit, and a little stuffed up. Perfectly fine for going to work, but not fine for visiting a baby who's less than a week old.)


askye - Oct 12, 2017 4:38:09 pm PDT #2197 of 8214
Thrive to spite them

I have no idea what I'm going to do about the job thing . But I had another message for an interview so that feels good.

Therapy went well. I was telling my therapist about various things and how I got this recliner and got it into the house myself even though I didn't think o could . It was such a silly little thing to be happy about but I did feel this big sense of accomplishment and felt a bit childish for feeling that happy. He said that when we are kids we learn a sense of feeling/capableness when they are 6-13 and I didn't develop that for a variety of reasons. But hey I can learn that now.

And then I had a really amazing afternoon/evening with M.

Hil I hope you feel better


Katerina Bee - Oct 12, 2017 7:15:39 pm PDT #2198 of 8214
Herding cats for fun

My cats have to get big enough before I will submit their tender little bodies to surgery. that way they have some physical reserves.

Mishka had already been neutered when I adopted him and it made me uncomfortable because he was still tiny and I'd never seen it done so young. It took him days to sleep it off.

He grew big and tall for a cat, but his last year he had arthritis in his hips and knees, poor guy. Maybe that wouldn't have been so bad without early neutering. I'll never know for sure.

He was probably cast from the same mold as Fred's Coco. Big, black, fluffy, calm. Kind to the other cats. He made me happy every day of his life. He wasn't scared of dogs, toddlers or parties. My teddy bear boy. I miss him.


Beverly - Oct 12, 2017 11:38:13 pm PDT #2199 of 8214
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Aww, Mishka. Sweet boy.


Katerina Bee - Oct 13, 2017 5:46:55 am PDT #2200 of 8214
Herding cats for fun

Here's a Mishka story I like to remember.

I always believed that he could hear me thinking. One day he had tenderly washed my face. Suddenly I had a silly thought and I wondered, would my nose fit into his mouth? He leaned forward and gave me an intent look, so I knew something was about to happen. Slowly he opened his mouth wide, and, you betcha. My nose DID totally fit all the way into his mouth. I had a moment to think, wow, if he bites down it will Suuuuuuck. Then he let me go and sat back, totally pleased with himself. He had answered my question.

There was much happy laughter and petting then. Good times.


Hil R. - Oct 13, 2017 7:25:54 am PDT #2201 of 8214
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm feeling totally fine today, so yesterday was probably just allergies.


askye - Oct 13, 2017 8:35:08 am PDT #2202 of 8214
Thrive to spite them

So the info I got on the phone about hours and chances for things like benefits at this store may not have been accurate. So now it looks like everyone is part time . But the pay is still higher. And there is no promise of anything after seasonal.

So now I'm waiting to meet with someone else and I have to decide.