You've got my support. Just think of me as...as your... You know, I'm searching for 'supportive things' and I'm coming up all bras.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Oct 04, 2017 3:33:58 pm PDT #2093 of 8214
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Zen, is it painful and/or weak? I'm wishing speedy strength.

Thanks! It is painful and weak, and also stiff. It's weird, it isn't only the ankle that hurts, it's the Achilles tendon and the muscles/ligaments on top of the foot. Basically, I need to exercise it, but that hurts, so I can only handle so much a day.

Steph, I would go hard core and cut out all animal fat except the cream in my coffee because no, but that may not be actually necessary.


Dana - Oct 04, 2017 3:39:38 pm PDT #2094 of 8214
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

The thing that was the biggest pain (ha ha) with my back rehab was the damn hamstring. Everything is connected in super-irritating ways.


Steph L. - Oct 04, 2017 3:44:34 pm PDT #2095 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Steph, I would go hard core and cut out all animal fat except the cream in my coffee because no, but that may not be actually necessary.

The surgeon told me no red meat, no dairy, no eggs, and no shrimp. But then I'm looking at things like crackers, where the % fat is like 35% and I'm second-guessing whether I should eat them.

This is why I don't diet, in a general sense. I mean, I am on board with this 1-week gall bladder experiment, but it's already making me crazy.


Dana - Oct 04, 2017 4:10:50 pm PDT #2096 of 8214
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

no red meat, no dairy, no eggs, and no shrimp

That seems drastic enough to me, as long as you're not eating the entire box of crackers.


Steph L. - Oct 04, 2017 5:16:33 pm PDT #2097 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

For real -- I wish I could post a picture on Facebook, but I won't, so I have to share it here -- right now we have 2 different medical booklets on our couch: "Gallbladder Surgery" and "Understanding Vasectomy."

We are getting a LOT out of our medical insurance this year.


beekaytee - Oct 04, 2017 6:11:03 pm PDT #2098 of 8214
Compassionately intolerant

I'd be interested in learning more. My mom used hypnosis to quit smoking. If I remember right, she had one session and quit cold turkey.

Yep. That is totally possible! In fact, it is one of the areas where hypnosis is most effective. Smoking, drinking, stress, phobias, self esteem, nail biting, bed wetting and sleep issues are the headliners, but there is a process for pretty much anything you need.

I'm really intrigued by hypno-birthing too, but I think that will be a ways off.

I'm looking forward to getting really good at smoking cessation. Being allergic to cigarette smoke, I want to help people get clear of that habit (if they really want to, of course). It will be good for me too!!

Thanks! It is painful and weak, and also stiff. It's weird, it isn't only the ankle that hurts, it's the Achilles tendon and the muscles/ligaments on top of the foot. Basically, I need to exercise it, but that hurts, so I can only handle so much a day.

Ugh. Whenever one part is hurt, and you compensate for the pain/instability, it strains everything else. Many more vibes for healing.

"Understanding Vasectomy."

An old friend's wife went through ivf, got pregnant and then six months after the first son was born, she fell pregnant with the second. When she was 3 months pregnant, he called me to chauffeur him to the clinic. I was amazed by how easy it was for him. Miracles of modern medicine!


sarameg - Oct 04, 2017 6:14:52 pm PDT #2099 of 8214

When I was waiting for my gallbladder to get evicted, I ate a ton of oatmeal, graham crackers and those protein steamer blends with rice and lentils and beans.Surgeon had warned me off my salads as well, but that was for different reasons I can't recall. But I'd already had a bad attack that probably woulda got me admitted and surgery had I gone in that night; this was about avoiding another attack until I got over a cold.


Steph L. - Oct 04, 2017 6:15:39 pm PDT #2100 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

"Understanding Vasectomy."

An old friend's wife went through ivf, got pregnant and then six months after the first son was born, she fell pregnant with the second. When she was 3 months pregnant, he called me to chauffeur him to the clinic. I was amazed by how easy it was for him. Miracles of modern medicine!

Since my cervix of steel refused IUD #3, after considering all the other options and weighing the potential health consequences, Tim getting snipped is the easiest option. And it's led to us yelling "I GOT YOU SOME ICE FOR YOUR CROTCH!!!" at each other: [link]


Steph L. - Oct 04, 2017 6:16:49 pm PDT #2101 of 8214
I look more rad than Lutheranism

those protein steamer blends with rice and lentils and beans.

I may go get those at the store tomorrow. There are a lot of those things now, and I can eat them because they don't have noodles and the protein isn't all breaded!


beekaytee - Oct 04, 2017 6:22:31 pm PDT #2102 of 8214
Compassionately intolerant

Tim getting snipped is the easiest option

It made my marriage so much easier.

Ultimately, I ended up having myself snipped and that has worked out well too, but was not. fun. Though, it was a loooong time ago, so I'm sure that technology has improved as well.