I'll be fine. I'll be your bounty, Jubal Early. And I'll just fade away.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Beverly - Sep 20, 2017 9:12:45 am PDT #1953 of 8213
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Sundowning is definitely a thing, so it's normal for her to lose focus and wobble a little in the evening. I hope she continues to improve, Epic.


Laura - Sep 20, 2017 9:27:43 am PDT #1954 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

Good to hear about the competent infectious disease doc. It makes a big difference to have confidence in the health care provider. Thinking of you often, Epic. Many of us have cared for our parents and understand the struggle. Sending strength and wishes for energy to get through the long emotionally exhausting days.

Hope the meds work well and soon for you, Teppy. I've known others that had side effects for just the first few days on a new med.


Steph L. - Sep 20, 2017 9:50:15 am PDT #1955 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

As for my troublesome stomach issues, I have an appointment with a surgeon for October 2. We'll see what happens.


Beverly - Sep 20, 2017 10:16:53 am PDT #1956 of 8213
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I hope it's a solution for you, Tep. This has gone on far too long already.


Steph L. - Sep 20, 2017 10:42:05 am PDT #1957 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I don't want surgery, but, yanno, if it would help the pain and nausea, I'll do it.


sarameg - Sep 20, 2017 3:21:14 pm PDT #1958 of 8213

Honestly, you've gone through much more intense surgery. My gallbladder lapro eviction, I was out walking 3 miles 5-6 days later (because I was going insane with inactivity.) I had no other surgery to compare it too, but even so found it pretty easy. I mean, worst part for me was the swimming ban for a month, not the few days of really having to strategize getting out of bed (and keeping Loki off me.)

I hope it is the fix you need. And if it isn't, hey, you'll avoid a full blown gallbladder attack. Which was a gajilliion times worse than the recovery.


askye - Sep 20, 2017 4:22:04 pm PDT #1959 of 8213
Thrive to spite them

Steph I hope the itchiness goes away soon.

Epic lots of health~ma to your mom


Scrappy - Sep 20, 2017 5:03:14 pm PDT #1960 of 8213
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I get the crazy -bad itching sometimes, Teppy, and I put cold on it--either a cold washcloth or if it's my feet and lower legs which seem to get it the worst, I just stick them under the tub faucet with water as cold as I can stand for a few minutes and that seems to stop it altogether. I usually HATE doing anything cold, but it actually feels good in this instance.

I hate, hate, hate feeling itchy, but this has made it manageable.


Katerina Bee - Sep 21, 2017 5:28:03 am PDT #1961 of 8213
Herding cats for fun

I09 let me know that today is the 15th anniversary of Firefly's debut on Fox.


Laura - Sep 21, 2017 6:10:53 am PDT #1962 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

15 years doesn't seem even remotely possible.

Random smoking cessation advice ahead. I know we have at least a couple people going through this process. Two substitutes I used were making a cup of tea or brushing my teeth. Both took a few minutes to push through the urge, and both involved hands and mouth activity. It is an icky process with the whole lung clearing stuff, but quitting was one of the best things I have ever done for myself.