Okay, um, I'm lost. Uh, I'm angry, and I'm armed, so if you two have something that you need to work out --

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Sep 02, 2017 11:26:51 am PDT #1659 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Also Steph realizations like that are important and huge even though it may seem small.

It's actually fairly huge. I 100% believed that of course other people's anxiety lies to them, but MY anxiety is always right. And now I think it's not. I just need to remind myself of that about 100 times a day, but the thing is, at least I remember it.


Steph L. - Sep 02, 2017 11:28:37 am PDT #1660 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I missed your second post, askye. Fingers crossed for your dad. Hopefully it's just a little change that can happen with age. There's a "normal" range of abnormal, especially as people age, if that makes sense. Like, it's okay to be outside the range of normal to a certain degree once you're past a certain age.


Laura - Sep 02, 2017 2:08:50 pm PDT #1661 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

Health~ma for your dad, askye.

My step-dad needs poop~ma. He came through his bypass surgery incredibly well, and it was super bad blockages in nasty places. Surgeon said it had been some time since he had one that bad. His recovery has been awesome, except he hasn't managed the whole bowel movement part. Since last Monday. I think part of it was his rejecting pain meds because he "doesn't need them", but instead he is avoiding at least sub-consciously doing stuff he knows is going to hurt. They finally moved him out of ICU today, but now he is getting an x-ray to make sure he doesn't have an obstruction causing this, which would not be good. He has been eating regular big meals 3 times a day since the day after surgery, so at this point he is mighty uncomfortable, and full of "it".


WindSparrow - Sep 02, 2017 2:44:22 pm PDT #1662 of 8213
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

~ma for your dad, askye, and your stepdad, Laura.


Laura - Sep 02, 2017 4:01:05 pm PDT #1663 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

Well, that was quick! Poop happened! Poor guy was so miserable. He wouldn't even let us visit today.


Connie Neil - Sep 02, 2017 4:08:28 pm PDT #1664 of 8213
brillig

A proud man with poop issues prefers to be alone.


Steph L. - Sep 02, 2017 4:09:26 pm PDT #1665 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Hooray for pooping!


Laura - Sep 02, 2017 4:22:11 pm PDT #1666 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

That was probably all that was keeping him from being released to rehab. What a relief!


beekaytee - Sep 02, 2017 5:36:22 pm PDT #1667 of 8213
Compassionately intolerant

Thank goodness for good poop! And, excellent recovery news!

I can't imagine having that kind of surgery and eating the next day.

Such wonderful news, Steph. Congrats to holding health-steady Tim! I hope your gum is feeling okay too.

Health ~ma to all who can use it.


sj - Sep 03, 2017 4:57:14 am PDT #1668 of 8213
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Can I have some of that health~ma? I'm headed to the ER. I've been running a fever for the last few days and am having pain in my left side. The doctor on call wants me to go to the ER.