A lot of it is that I tend to usually sit in the same place on the couch, so if I'm paying bills or something, then the stack of bills piles up there, and then I'm bad at following through at putting them in the recycling when I get up. I tried putting a small garbage can right there, but I kept accidentally kicking it over, and then all the stuff would spill. Plus, if I'm reading a book or using my iPad or something, my instinct when I'm done with it is to put it on the floor, so stuff just piles up there
Yes, we refer to this in my apartment as my "crap hole."
meara, yeah, psychiatrists aren't often covered anymore, I think? Tom and I just pay out of pocket for med consults, and it's pricey - a few hundred bucks for the initial consult and then follow up appointments (20-30 minutes) are around $135. But PCPs can only do so much before you have to let the brain experts give it a try.
Yeah, I get that about PCP but I feel like she basically tried one thing and then gave up. If I have to wait for an appointment and pay out of pocket, I'd like to try at least one other thing first, yonow?
Virginia's tax-free weekend has price limits (fairly generous), and it only covers clothing, shoes, school supplies, power generators, and chainsaws.
So if you need a generator and a chainsaw, this is the weekend to come to Virginia.
Mom's birthday is tomorrow . She's in Florida visiting a friend and also taking care of her townhouse . Her friend went off for the weekend so my Dad is taking her to dinner tonight to one of his favorite places.
Mom worries sometimes that my brother and I struggle with relationships because she and Dad have been divorced for so long and we didn't grow up seeing a marriage work. I keep telling her watching them develop a relationship as a divorced couple and parents is a good model.
Strike two is a red flag. I don't do doctors who don't listen to me. No one should.
Sing it, Vortex!
I am helping a friend through the dying process and, no matter how many times I do this, it never ceases
to amaze me that certain doctors simply can't slow their roll enough to listen to an 84lb woman express pretty much the last few choices she will have in this life.
When I was so sick a couple of months ago, I ran into one of those in the emergency room. Even with a 102 fever, I was able to demand a different doctor. The original one came back to apologize, helped I'm sure by the fact that I recorded our entire conversation.
I keep telling her watching them develop a relationship as a divorced couple and parents is a good model.
So wise, askye. It's a gift that you can tell her that.
I recorded our entire conversation.
Can I ask, how you did that? On your phone? Out in the open? I may be shortly in a situation where I want to record a conversation, and I've been fretting about it.
you can get recording apps for your phone. I use two, one for phone calls and one for face to face conversation/interviews.
Can I ask, how you did that? On your phone? Out in the open?
Yep. On my ipod, in the open. I don't necessarily shove it in the other person's face, but I don't hide it either.
In this case, I had the ipod, screen up, so you could see the voice recording app, if you looked.
He did not notice until the part of the conversation where I demanded the new doctor and he fought me over it. I picked up the device (which was plugged in to the wall as recording burns the battery quickly) and he looked kind of stricken. Then, like he needed to fix it. Which he did.
I am so over people not being true their word, or offering poor service, that I have no qualms about being upfront about my need to protect myself.
That was what finally brought my landlord into line. I recorded EVERYTHING and then published a site on wix with photos and videos. I then shared the url with inspectors, lawyers and city officials.
I did all of this rationally and without the vitriol I actually felt. It got results. In fact, my attorney...the fifth in 2 years...tenant work is thankless, yo...said that mine was the best documented complaint she had ever seen.
Truth.
It does a body good.
beekaytee, I am so very happy you have found this strategy to advocate for yourself.
