Or maybe you could just be Buffy, he'll see your amazing heart, and he'll fall in love with you.

Xander ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Jul 31, 2017 10:53:13 am PDT #1360 of 8208
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

A lot of it is that I tend to usually sit in the same place on the couch, so if I'm paying bills or something, then the stack of bills piles up there, and then I'm bad at following through at putting them in the recycling when I get up. I tried putting a small garbage can right there, but I kept accidentally kicking it over, and then all the stuff would spill. Plus, if I'm reading a book or using my iPad or something, my instinct when I'm done with it is to put it on the floor, so stuff just piles up there. Looking at it now (which was the area he was looking and gesturing at), I've got a few books, a bunch of random papers, several medicine bottles, a couple socks, a pair of sandals, two small Amazon boxes (the size that hold a couple paperbacks) and their bubble-wrap, assorted pens and pencils, and a couple of plastic bags that some clothes that I ordered online came it. Nearly all of that is actual garbage -- I can probably clean it up in 20 minutes if I sit down to do it.

Oh, and two wrist braces, one thumb brace, and two ankle braces. And an umbrella, a couple of TENS pads, a coloring book, and a package of colored pencils.


Hil R. - Jul 31, 2017 10:57:56 am PDT #1361 of 8208
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I don't let anyone see it, although Hil, you probably glimpsed it when you came over for the GISHWHES photos last year, so if you saw it, you know what I mean

I think I saw it a little bit, but it didn't seem that bad.


Steph L. - Jul 31, 2017 11:00:06 am PDT #1362 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Ah, you didn't get a full glimpse of the Hoarders horror, then. Really, it's bad. Like, can only walk 3 or 4 feet into the room before the piles (and the desk on its side [no, I have NO idea]) prevent any further incursion.


Hil R. - Jul 31, 2017 11:02:17 am PDT #1363 of 8208
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Cleaning up a bit, I just found a piece of hard candy under some of the papers. It doesn't seem to have attracted anything, though the wrapper was a bit unwrapped. So, there are definitely not ants here, at the very least.


SuziQ - Jul 31, 2017 11:32:01 am PDT #1364 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

In a complete shift, it looks like Kelly's bf is going to officially propose next week. Kelly's best friend is coming to visit for a week with her fiance. They will be staying at my house, she is my second daughter. Anyway, he wants Kelly to be able to celebrate with Vicki and S.

They were originally going to wait until they could afford a "classic" engagement ring. I'll admit, I'm the one who gave them the idea of going non-traditional. Look at other stones. Simpler options. If, down the line, they want to upgrade, then maybe different rings for her wedding set or have it be an anniversary thing.

Sooooooo...he ordered a ring with an aquamarine stone and "white sapphires" aka not-diamonds but with the look of them. Her birthstone is aquamarine and his is diamond - so I think it is a pretty choice for them.


Gudanov - Jul 31, 2017 12:08:46 pm PDT #1365 of 8208
Coding and Sleeping

Our house is like islands of clean and messy. I'm always running out of time to get everything done so it's a craps shoot what happens to be clean at any one time. I try to keep the most public areas clean enough that the kids feel they can have people over. I did all the work for dinner tonight last night so I'll have time to clean the kitchen while it's cooking.


SuziQ - Jul 31, 2017 12:11:15 pm PDT #1366 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Gud, that is absolutely me most of the time - the downstairs may be presentable - but my room and my office...oy.


Gudanov - Jul 31, 2017 12:20:31 pm PDT #1367 of 8208
Coding and Sleeping

I've got family room, living room, dining room, one bathroom, and about half the master bedroom okay. The kitchen is messy, but not scary. My kids rooms are kinda terrible and my wife's office area is kinda catastrophic. However, I don't clean those areas. The garage is kinda terrible, but the new car can park in it and one can get to mostly everything so it's on the back-burner.


SuziQ - Jul 31, 2017 12:57:42 pm PDT #1368 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Last Saturday was "help Suzi get the garage back to where I can walk through it" day. We organized a bunch but then pulled out a bunch that needs to go out on the next "extra trash" day which isn't for about 3 weeks...so it is still a mess.


Gudanov - Jul 31, 2017 1:01:12 pm PDT #1369 of 8208
Coding and Sleeping

Sounds like a lot of good work though.