You can't open the book of my life and jump in the middle. Like woman, I'm a mystery.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jul 19, 2017 7:18:40 am PDT #1200 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Soaking in a hot bath, especially with epsom salt, does help quite a bit when I can find the time to do it. Mom is here today and ltc just went down for a nap. So, I'm going to take one now, and hopefully it will reduce to urge to cut off my right leg, which has been killing me for a week.


Scrappy - Jul 19, 2017 8:12:44 am PDT #1201 of 8208
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I love a hot bath and find it very helpful, but my aches and pains are pretty minor.


smonster - Jul 19, 2017 8:41:40 am PDT #1202 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yes, Epsom baths can be helpful. I'd take more but it usually requires cleaning the tubs, which is not something I want to do when hurting. I don't clean the tub as much as I should, and my roommate just cleaned it for the first time since we moved in in October (and I did that super crazy deep clean). I thanked him, because I try to still be a decent human, and he was proud like a five-year who remember to flush and watch his hands. Calm down, honey.


SuziQ - Jul 19, 2017 8:44:52 am PDT #1203 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Is half a day's worth of work a reasonable time to call it quits and rest up before my doctor's appointment? I'm hitting the wall. Not pain, just endurance. Blech.


smonster - Jul 19, 2017 6:10:24 pm PDT #1204 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Suzi, iIhope you rested.

The Boy is ghosting, and I'm okay with that. Moving on…


SuziQ - Jul 19, 2017 7:34:38 pm PDT #1205 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

smonster - stupid ghost boy. Doesn't deserve you.

I tried to rest. Yesterday I felt pretty darned good. PT went well. Today, other than endurance, I felt pretty great. PT was more challenging, but went well. I went out to dinner with a friend and walking up the two garage steps back into my house and my hip decided it hates me yet again. I'm ready to cry. It took me forever to climb the stairs to my room and now I'm waiting for the muscle relaxant to kick in. And try not to cry.


Scrappy - Jul 19, 2017 8:37:17 pm PDT #1206 of 8208
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Aw, Suzi, a setback like that is doubly frustrating. I hope the muscle relaxants do the trick.


beekaytee - Jul 20, 2017 5:22:42 am PDT #1207 of 8208
Compassionately intolerant

Does soaking in hot water help any of your pains, folks with pains?

Medicinal baths are definitely my beautiful cake.

Epsom salts, baking soda and, when I've a mind, almond oil. OR, Kneipp bath oil if I'm fancy and someone has given it to me as a gift.

I totally get the squick factor, but the ease and comfort I get outweighs that for me. Plus, I make my own soft scrub (baking soda, dawn dishwashing liquid and a few drops of peppermint oil) which makes the whole scrubbing thing more enjoyable.

I honestly don't get how people live without bathtubs...which is an alarming trend these days...for so many things. But, specifically, I would not make it through the winter, or hard labor without one.

Just took one last night after some strenuous volunteering and it was a godsend.

One of my ultimate dreams is to have a soaking tub. I had one when I lived briefly in Denmark and it just about made my life.


Steph L. - Jul 20, 2017 11:31:39 am PDT #1208 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Ugh. Therapy is bullshit and all this self-awareness BLOWS. I had a pretty sweet deal with all that repression and denial.

This shit is the hardest thing I've ever done. I'm not sorry I'm doing it, but if I knew what I was getting into when I showed up for that first appointment, I wouldn't have had the courage to do it. It's helped, and it continues to be helpful, but it's like cleaning out road rash with a wire brush sometimes. It's the only way to heal, but Jesus Christ it's so painful getting there.

And thank you all for not telling me to shut up and stop complaining.


Tom Scola - Jul 20, 2017 11:35:06 am PDT #1209 of 8208
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I had a pretty sweet deal with all that repression and denial.

Preach it, Sister.