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Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

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Java cat - Jul 18, 2017 6:02:30 pm PDT #1193 of 8208
Not javachik

Mmm sounds nice. The only places I know where you can do that are Harbin hot springs, which burned down, the Calistoga spa Inn, which changed its policy on day passes, and Breitenbush, way up in the Oregon Cascades between Bend and Salem.


Java cat - Jul 18, 2017 6:07:15 pm PDT #1194 of 8208
Not javachik

Jackson Wellsprings kind of has that too, the hippie hot spring near Ashland. They don't have a cold pool but their mineral water is warm not hot, and then they have a hot pool that they heat up.

I'm totally into hot tubs and Hot Springs, but baths kind of gross me out. I guess because they're not deep enough or something, they seem inadequate, and then there's the annoyance factor of having to take a shower after you have a bath to wash off skin or dirt or whatever just soaked off your body. The private hot tubs here, it's mandatory to take a shower before you get in them, then I take one after also. Breitenbush dumps their water once a day and replaces it, which is how I got over the squick factor of people not showering before getting into their Pools.

The only thing that's going to get me out of this house is a hot tub, or maybe a movie, or maybe I'll just wait and go to yoga tomorrow morning.


WindSparrow - Jul 18, 2017 7:28:10 pm PDT #1195 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Welcome home, Java! Sounds like mostly a lovely trip. And yeah, the Cat Java will be on your mind a fair bit for a while.


Atropa - Jul 18, 2017 8:01:08 pm PDT #1196 of 8208
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

At the lady spa, it is mandatory to shower before going in the pools, and to shower after any scrub or massage service. And I shower after soaking, just so I don't smell like chlorine.


Hil R. - Jul 18, 2017 8:12:15 pm PDT #1197 of 8208
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I keep pulling my right shoulder out of joint and feeling something get badly stretched inside. I'm nearly certain that my doctor will say to wear a sling for a while, until the swelling goes down, and then do physical therapy. I really don't want to have my right arm in a sling -- I'm right-handed, and my left hand is completely uncoordinated at doing anything.


SuziQ - Jul 19, 2017 6:19:44 am PDT #1198 of 8208
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Twenty four hours without a muscle relaxant OR pain meds. I even loaded the dishwasher and got that going this morning. Until today, bending over hurt worse than trying to walk.

Between follow-up PT appointments, a therapeutic massage, and my son turning 21, the next three days are going to be short work days. But I feel like I have seriously turned the corner back to human-dom again.


sj - Jul 19, 2017 6:35:46 am PDT #1199 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

This seems relevant to our interests.


sj - Jul 19, 2017 7:18:40 am PDT #1200 of 8208
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Soaking in a hot bath, especially with epsom salt, does help quite a bit when I can find the time to do it. Mom is here today and ltc just went down for a nap. So, I'm going to take one now, and hopefully it will reduce to urge to cut off my right leg, which has been killing me for a week.


Scrappy - Jul 19, 2017 8:12:44 am PDT #1201 of 8208
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I love a hot bath and find it very helpful, but my aches and pains are pretty minor.


smonster - Jul 19, 2017 8:41:40 am PDT #1202 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yes, Epsom baths can be helpful. I'd take more but it usually requires cleaning the tubs, which is not something I want to do when hurting. I don't clean the tub as much as I should, and my roommate just cleaned it for the first time since we moved in in October (and I did that super crazy deep clean). I thanked him, because I try to still be a decent human, and he was proud like a five-year who remember to flush and watch his hands. Calm down, honey.