Bunch of wanna blessed-bes. Nowadays every girl with a henna tattoo and a spice rack thinks she's a sister to the dark ones.

Willow ,'Bring On The Night'


Goodbye and Good Riddance 2016: We know the world didn't end, because, check it out!  

Every year we watch the Charlie Brown special, do the Snoopy dance, wish everybody a Merry Thanksgivukkahmas, and thank our Secret Santas in the good riddance thread. Which is this one, in case you were wondering.

Go away, 2016.


amyth - Dec 30, 2016 3:27:55 pm PST #198 of 269
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

I'm so sorry, Consuela.


WindSparrow - Dec 30, 2016 5:51:20 pm PST #199 of 269
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm sorry, Consuela.


Beverly - Dec 30, 2016 10:24:04 pm PST #200 of 269
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Very sorry, Consuela.


JenP - Dec 31, 2016 6:42:18 am PST #201 of 269

I'm so sorry for your loss, Consuela.


Zenkitty - Dec 31, 2016 9:08:41 am PST #202 of 269
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm sorry, Consuela. He's got a lot of good company up there to hang out with, for sure.


Steph L. - Dec 31, 2016 1:34:14 pm PST #203 of 269
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

We really did blow up 2016. There's pictures on Facebook. And (slo-mo) video at some point. So far, the neighbors haven't called the cops on us.


Burrell - Dec 31, 2016 2:05:46 pm PST #204 of 269
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I saw that, Steph, and it made me fall a little bit in love with Tim. Platonically, of course.


SuziQ - Dec 31, 2016 3:04:31 pm PST #205 of 269
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

That is so awesome, Teppy. Tim is a rock star!


SuziQ - Dec 31, 2016 3:04:35 pm PST #206 of 269
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

That is so awesome, Teppy. Tim is a rock star!


msbelle - Dec 31, 2016 4:05:03 pm PST #207 of 269
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Year in Review?

hmmph.

While 2015 was devastating on a personal loss level, 2016 just seemed to be MACRO gut-punching.

I did a personal top 10 on FB of some good to me things.

Beyond that, I started counting calories (then stopped), then started going to the gym. I need to put the two together and that might be the kicker. I did lose some weight (5-7 lbs) and absolutely lost some fat. I have maintained for several months though and am not where I want to be, so a kick in the pants is needed.

I continue to struggle with loving stuff and simultaneously wanting to declutter/simplify my life. I think I am still headed in the right direction. A garage sale Memorial Day saw several pieces of furniture leave the house. Despite clothes shopping like a banshee for several months, I did maintain balance and got rid of almost 1 for 1 things coming in. Books I decreased over all and if I kick up my reading habit like I am hoping, that should continue.

I got back on anti-anxiety meds and that was very very good. Low-level depression remains a no good situational thing. I'm lonely and mac is often non-communicative and angry. It will get better.

I lost both cats this year and it was hard for both, but also very different. They were 16-17.5, so they had good long lives. I miss them. I am also trying to enjoy the freedom of fewer commitments. (Dog sitting now for a BIG dog is curing me of any desire to get another pet).

This place and you all (both here and on FB) continue to be a bright spot. So much support, and joy sharing, and helpful advice/guidance. We rallied this year around those who needed it and I love us for that. I got closer to a few of you and hope to continue that trend. Real in person visits is as close to a resolution I am gonna make, but plans are in the works for at least 2 trips. As always Thanks and my guest room is available for retreats, respite, visits, and even small family vacations (I have a trundle bed option AND inflatables also).