Angel: Yeah, I never told anyone about this, but I-I liked your poems. Spike: You like Barry Manilow.

'Hell Bound'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Oct 25, 2016 5:21:28 am PDT #59 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I've probably said this before, but god damn am I grateful my dad is in the VA system. I just don't even know what we'd do otherwise. Well, I do know, because I doubt he'd be alive. Aside from the (no or minimal) cost issue, which is huge, the way that they manage and plan his care is a godsend.

With all his various issues, I think about if he had to be the one staying on top of scheduling his appointments, making sure to follow through when they recommend he see a specialist, or a physical therapist, or change a med or whatever. He's a man of a certain age - he'd put it off or forget or delay or whathaveyou if he had to proactively manage it himself. Or it would fall to me or my sister, who aren't exactly on top of this shit ourselves, and we'd be trying to plan and schedule based on his probably vague recollections of what some doctor or nurse might have told him and just no.

And that's not even counting things like transportation - when he was having radiation for prostate cancer they picked him up and drove him home every day for six weeks. He's just gotten approved for regular pick ups for his PT and other appointments now so he doesn't have to drive the hour back and forth from where he's currently living.

It's not the nicest place in the world, and sometimes there is certainly some bureaucratic slowness to the process. But damn, everyone should have this.


Dana - Oct 25, 2016 5:32:06 am PDT #60 of 30002
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

The packers have been here for an hour and a half, and they have packed the kitchen, the garage, the speakers, the breakable tchotchkes, and the lamps, and they're about to do the few framed pieces of art we have. I think we can maybe take a deep breath and relax.


Volans - Oct 25, 2016 6:15:24 am PDT #61 of 30002
move out and draw fire

No way in hell this trio of New Mexicans was going to order the enchiladas at a spendy MD restaurant, we know it'd not compare to our comfort food favorite hole in the walls at quarter the cost in the hometown.

They would be rolled anyway.

Layoffs. The wife of my mentor is getting laid off in December from a very large company based in Rochester that failed to believe digital photography would be a thing. They let her know early as she's Mahogany Row. She already kind of knew, so she's been looking for a new job for like 2 years, but it turns out no one hires female executives.


Dana - Oct 25, 2016 6:18:15 am PDT #62 of 30002
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Packers done! I am doing the dance of them being done! Still have to work, but the packers are done!


smonster - Oct 25, 2016 6:27:00 am PDT #63 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hurray, Dana!

::waves at Vonnie:: I will just offer one anti-rec: do NOT give into convenience and go to Mulate's across the street from the Convention Center. It is nast.


meara - Oct 25, 2016 6:49:30 am PDT #64 of 30002

Wait, am I supposed to know who Volans is?

As long as you're healthy and traditionally employed, the system here works great!

Hahahah. Yes. "As long as you don't need our system, the system works!"

And I'm definitely looking into immigration if Trump wins. For serious.


Steph L. - Oct 25, 2016 6:50:18 am PDT #65 of 30002
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

And I'm definitely looking into immigration if Trump wins. For serious.

He's not going to win.


Vonnie K - Oct 25, 2016 6:51:00 am PDT #66 of 30002
Kiss me, my girl, before I'm sick.

Hee! Thanks, smonster. Will stay away accordingly.

food at the convention center is also pretty darn good, considering.

I saw a bunch of stalls that looked like a decent sized food court on the way in. Might try that since I only have an hour for lunch.

3 hours into the symposium and I am already squirming. I paid for the sessions and everything, so I shouldn't shove off and play hooky / go off to sightsee, right? Sliiigh.


meara - Oct 25, 2016 6:55:33 am PDT #67 of 30002

He's not going to win

I'm clinging to polls and such. Feeling much less worried about it than I was even a few weeks ago...but also a tiny bit worried that the certainty won't get the vote out and then it'll be scary?

In other news, I once again want to scream at the system we are using. Wtf who planned that training can ONLY be done in IE??


meara - Oct 25, 2016 6:56:35 am PDT #68 of 30002

(Ah, and just saw beep me--thanks Volans!)