I skipped Halloween, didn't want to have the candy in the house. So I went to chorus rehearsal instead, but not before getting yet another call from Dad bitching about the food at his facility. He's got just enough capacity to be super demanding, and not enough to understand that his diet is limited because he's at high risk of aspirating. What he basically wants is a steak and vegetables and fresh homemade bread at every meal. Which, surprisingly, they don't do at most memory care facilities.
I've signed up for Munchery and they will deliver dinners to him this week, which the staff will have to heat up.
We're paying twice my salary to keep him at this place, and he still needs outside caregivers to keep him from falling or choking, and they can't feed him quality food that he enjoys. I'm pretty close to moving him, despite the stress. It's not as bad as Mom, but I'm starting to dread answering the phone when he calls.
We left the house dark when we went out to discourage trick-or-treaters. Because we had tickets to an eternal-life-and-vampires themed theater performance. Aerialists! Very bendy people in red and/or sparkly clothes!
We didn't have any trick or treaters. Some years we've had a couple, so I had a small bowl of candy. Oh well. Maybe I'll take it in to work. (No, I won't.)
Because we had tickets to an eternal-life-and-vampires themed theater performance. Aerialists! Very bendy people in red and/or sparkly clothes!
That sounds very cool.
Last year we only had two small groups of trick or treaters. This year, Kelly's bf C was very excited to hand out candy, so he had control of the door while I had Jack upstairs with me so he wouldn't frighten off the wee costumed neighbors. And this year we had a bunch of trick or treaters. I missed the adorableness, but C was very happy.
Tonight a group of friends are going to go to a Serenity party at Alamo Drafthouse. I remember seeing it with a bunch of Buffistas when it first came out.
Suzi, that sounds like a good night. C sounds like a good person.
Consuela... yeah... I got nothing. It sucks, that's all there is to it.
C is. He and Kelly are adorable together. They communicate very well together, which is HUGE for a young couple. He has started calling me Mom, which is both very strange and completely sweet.
Who took my motivation? It is gone, gone, gone this morning.
We had a bunch of TOTers but since we had to TOT ourselves, we missed a lot, too. Had many older teens this year - I'm cool with it, just surprised by how many. I swear, S loves handing out candy as much as he enjoys getting it!
So, it is possible to burn oatmeal in the microwave. Yay learning.
Phone call with my boss will not end, will not end, will not end...
Things I did not say to my boss, in this interminable phone call:
"Well, maybe we wouldn't be so far behind if my coworker hadn't spent months faffing around on her other project, instead of actually documenting stuff."
"So sorry that my potential carpal tunnel surgery is inconvenient for you. You could at least pretend to express sympathy, rather than hoping I won't need the surgery and won't need to take time off."
