Woo! Monster ac on a moving dolly rolls easily into the back of the closet! Will have to figure out if I can get the other in there as well, might have to put up a shelf.
Still so fucking humid.
Raise your hand if 'ew.'
Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
sarameg - Oct 08, 2017 9:38:37 am PDT #17539 of 30002
aurelia - Oct 08, 2017 10:21:24 am PDT #17540 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Primary debates with a lot of candidates are exhausting to watch.
Kat - Oct 08, 2017 11:05:25 am PDT #17541 of 30002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
Yes. We'll go see him in respite every day. In fact, it's close to the Y with the really awesome pool.
I think the thing that we are really working with, though, is that she wants him to be in respite so she can spend more time with us. So I'm trying to be empathetic with what she feeling, but then she said, "You could go to DC for the day."
Really, Mom? Really? We are there for 4 days. I don't want to go to DC. I don't want to go to Michigan to see my brother who I am still not talking to because he voted for Gary Johnson. I just want to hang out with my family.
Sheryl - Oct 08, 2017 3:13:02 pm PDT #17542 of 30002
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
I'm sorry things are so hard, Kat.
sarameg - Oct 08, 2017 3:19:38 pm PDT #17543 of 30002
:/ I guess you just have to keep saying that and pretend she actually hears it. Bleh.
Taking tomorrow off. Looks like I'll be rearranging the litterbox room furniture ( because I want to) and maybe doing my car emissions test. Maybe on the latter.
Burrell - Oct 08, 2017 3:29:54 pm PDT #17544 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Ugh Kat, that's so hard. As someone who was primary caregiver for a few years, I kinda get your mother's perspective. Sounds like the respite care is for her more than anyone else, but maybe that's what she needs. That could help explain why she's not really hearing you and your needs. I am glad that you can go see him every day.
Burrell - Oct 08, 2017 3:31:20 pm PDT #17545 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
And Jilli, huge ugh on your behalf too. I had a person like that in my life, only in my case it was my sister so she was sort of stuck with me up until the end, but I saw her pull that move on so many people who loved her. I wish I had advice for you.
-t - Oct 08, 2017 3:50:32 pm PDT #17546 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
::waves::
Made it to all my stuff today. So tired. And hungry. But the food is all in the kitchen yards away from the bed I do not wish to leave, so that is a dilemma. Not to mention all the tasks I didn't get done.
So hard, Kat. No advice, I just hear you at this point.
beekaytee - Oct 08, 2017 7:12:27 pm PDT #17547 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
Still so fucking humid.
It's like slogging through an aquarium around here. Definitely not October weather.
Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 09, 2017 5:59:25 am PDT #17548 of 30002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand
We've been lucky on the humidity front for the most part, but the temperatures have been the high 80s.
"Climate Change is a hoax!" my ass!