Please...Wesley...why can't I stay?

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - May 12, 2017 9:57:43 am PDT #11277 of 30002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Ugh. I slept until 11:30 Pacific time. I meant to get up around 9:00. But I suppose it makes sense I'd be so tired, considering the stress I'm under.

My flight from Oakland boards at 8:14 am tomorrow. What time should I get to the airport? I imagine the security lines will be fairly short?

ETA: does the car rental shuttle run at, say, 6:00 am for the Oakland airport?


Connie Neil - May 12, 2017 9:57:51 am PDT #11278 of 30002
brillig

The way she treats you is appalling.

Sad but true.


Gudanov - May 12, 2017 10:05:05 am PDT #11279 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

Well, it may be that she's not answering for other reasons and isn't angry. I don't really know. It's got me stressed out though.


msbelle - May 12, 2017 10:06:17 am PDT #11280 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

This is when you text. "I was in a meeting where we cannot have phones. Saw you called. What is it?"


Gudanov - May 12, 2017 10:07:39 am PDT #11281 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

I've called back twice, left a message, and just sent a text so we'll see.


Laura - May 12, 2017 10:08:45 am PDT #11282 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Try and let go of the stress. If it was important she would have left a message. You have done nothing wrong.

I've made a command decision that I am going to take a nap! My head has been unhappy and I thought I might be dehydrated, but drinking hasn't helped so drugs and closed eyes are next on my list. It is after 3 on a Friday. IF my customers have issues they should call it an early weekend. Makes sense to me at this point.


Dana - May 12, 2017 10:20:57 am PDT #11283 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Time for another exciting two-Percocet adventure. Going at 3PM for pre-op tests, where they'll probably want me to do stuff like stand and walk, so I'm dosing up.


Gudanov - May 12, 2017 10:28:37 am PDT #11284 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

Gud, do you ever get pissed off at her?

Not really. I tend to get frustrated at myself for making mistakes. She's a good person so it seems like if there are problems they are probably my fault. Besides, there's not anything I can do, she needs me right now, my kids need me right now, and I don't want to blow everything up.


Connie Neil - May 12, 2017 10:29:51 am PDT #11285 of 30002
brillig

She's a good person so it seems like if there are problems they are probably my fault.

Good people make mistakes. Take her off her pedestal. It's better to be equals.


Atropa - May 12, 2017 10:34:58 am PDT #11286 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

if there are problems they are probably my fault.

NO.

Is any marriage perfect? No. But the problems are certainly not entirely your fault. Not at all.

Gud, you are a good person, and your wife should be a supportive partner who doesn't make you feel anxious and stressed.