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Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - May 12, 2017 9:51:01 am PDT #11273 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I see, she can choose to not answer the phone, but you have to even if you are in a meeting. Not reasonable.


Steph L. - May 12, 2017 9:51:46 am PDT #11274 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Gud, do you ever get pissed off at her? If my husband treated me the way your wife treats you, there would be hell to pay. t edit (Okay, no, I'll be honest. If Tim treated me the way your wife treats you, the marriage would be over. The way she treats you is not how you treat someone you claim to love. It's abusive, and you deserve so much better.) You are WORKING. You can't just drop everything to answer the phone the moment anyone calls, not even your wife.

I work from home, where things are not *super* pressing, but even so, I keep my phone on mute because I have shit to do. People can leave a message and I'll call back. If that pisses them off -- even if it's my husband -- too fucking bad. They can get the fuck over it and act like actual adults, not 3-year-olds throwing a tantrum because they don't get what they want the precise SECOND they decide they want it.

The way she treats you is appalling.


Steph L. - May 12, 2017 9:54:21 am PDT #11275 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

And honestly, you don't seem very happy with her. I'm not sure why you put up with it.


Dana - May 12, 2017 9:54:43 am PDT #11276 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

she can choose to not answer the phone, but you have to even if you are in a meeting.

A meeting that happens at the same time every day. Pretty reasonable to assume you won't be able to answer your phone at that point.


tommyrot - May 12, 2017 9:57:43 am PDT #11277 of 30002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Ugh. I slept until 11:30 Pacific time. I meant to get up around 9:00. But I suppose it makes sense I'd be so tired, considering the stress I'm under.

My flight from Oakland boards at 8:14 am tomorrow. What time should I get to the airport? I imagine the security lines will be fairly short?

ETA: does the car rental shuttle run at, say, 6:00 am for the Oakland airport?


Connie Neil - May 12, 2017 9:57:51 am PDT #11278 of 30002
brillig

The way she treats you is appalling.

Sad but true.


Gudanov - May 12, 2017 10:05:05 am PDT #11279 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

Well, it may be that she's not answering for other reasons and isn't angry. I don't really know. It's got me stressed out though.


msbelle - May 12, 2017 10:06:17 am PDT #11280 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

This is when you text. "I was in a meeting where we cannot have phones. Saw you called. What is it?"


Gudanov - May 12, 2017 10:07:39 am PDT #11281 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

I've called back twice, left a message, and just sent a text so we'll see.


Laura - May 12, 2017 10:08:45 am PDT #11282 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Try and let go of the stress. If it was important she would have left a message. You have done nothing wrong.

I've made a command decision that I am going to take a nap! My head has been unhappy and I thought I might be dehydrated, but drinking hasn't helped so drugs and closed eyes are next on my list. It is after 3 on a Friday. IF my customers have issues they should call it an early weekend. Makes sense to me at this point.