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'Beneath You'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Oct 01, 2015 4:48:47 pm PDT #6417 of 30003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

msbelle, I'm sorry about your friend and mac's grades. It sucks when a whole bunch of things go wrong all at once.


hippocampus - Oct 01, 2015 4:59:54 pm PDT #6418 of 30003
not your mom's socks.

I'm so sorry msbelle. Best wishes to your friend. Hugs for you. Hope Mac knows how hard you care about him.


sarameg - Oct 01, 2015 5:02:43 pm PDT #6419 of 30003

Echoing Kat. I'm sorry.

Not a great day here. But the good news is I'm very zen or just really good at embracing that river in Egypt. Nothing worth reporting, I'm just darkly amused at how 'well,fuck' turns into 'fuck, whatever.'


msbelle - Oct 01, 2015 5:03:41 pm PDT #6420 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I am not dealing with what I know about mac's grades. I'll get the email tomorrow and I will text him and my parents the consequences.

Tonight he is asking for a messaging app that everything I just read says it is a pedophile/sexting filled mess with no safeguards. geez. KIK. anyone use it?


Hil R. - Oct 01, 2015 5:23:16 pm PDT #6421 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Tonight he is asking for a messaging app that everything I just read says it is a pedophile/sexting filled mess with no safeguards. geez. KIK. anyone use it?

I've never used it, but I know it's popular with teenagers. As for the sexting stuff, do you think he's responsible enough to follow rules like "Don't accept messages from strangers" and "Let an adult know if someone asks you to send a photo"?


Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 01, 2015 5:43:50 pm PDT #6422 of 30003
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I don't use KIK, but some of the sketchier personals ads I've read lately seem to favor it as a method of communication. I'd give that one an Oh HELL No! for a teenager to be using.


shrift - Oct 01, 2015 6:29:20 pm PDT #6423 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I've never used KIK either, but I've talked about it with a friend who is a social worker and works with kids. She has concerns about sexual predators as well, mostly because tweens and teens often are lacking in impulse control and good judgement.

It's possible to use the app and be perfectly safe, but only if you turn on all the privacy settings, don't post your username anywhere, and don't respond to any messages from strangers who've guessed your username.


Burrell - Oct 01, 2015 6:33:15 pm PDT #6424 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Extra ugh, msbelle. Can you use the "it's not you, it's other people I'm worried about" line, or does that no longer work?

And I'm sorry about the crap day, sarameg.

So the meeting I went to was a gifted meeting at Franny's school. My take away message was that the accelerated math program is a hot mess and thank dawg Frances is in the regular math class, with the ONE math teacher I've heard say things like "I don't care what the pace of the class is *supposed* to be, I'd rather take the time for the students to learn the concept correctly now or there will be holes in their knowledge later" instead of "the standards are so rigorous and hard, many of the students won't get it, many of them struggle with it, you really have no idea, the class is just SO HARD!"


amyth - Oct 02, 2015 12:42:14 am PDT #6425 of 30003
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Liese, insent you some song feedback last night.


lisah - Oct 02, 2015 4:02:05 am PDT #6426 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

Oh, msbelle, so sorry. That's a lot of shit to deal with at once.