Anya, the Shopkeepers of America called. They wanted me to tell you that 'please go' just got replaced with 'have a nice day.'

Xander ,'Selfless'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Oct 05, 2016 4:40:33 am PDT #28768 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

How is the foot, Sheryl?

Gud, I went through this with my sons. #2 has heard all his life from friends, teachers, and family how brilliant his brother is. It is very stressful. It is a much different dynamic now that they are in their 20s. #2 totally has his act together with employment, school, and relationships. #1 is pretty much dysfunctional. So the whole 'your brother is a genius' thing doesn't sting as much.

But it was very hard when they were kids. #1 was leading reading circle and doing multiplication in kindergarten while #2 had to be held back a year. While as adults we could see that #2 was so much more accomplished at all things a person needs to be a successful in a practical sense.

Kids have a lot of stress and the stress of being smarter than everyone you know including your teachers is just as frustrating as being the kid brother of that brainiac. Also, parenting is ridiculously stressful!!


Kat - Oct 05, 2016 4:55:42 am PDT #28769 of 30003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Sue, does Marshalls ballot count? I mean I don't know the rules on that.


Zenkitty - Oct 05, 2016 5:02:01 am PDT #28770 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

"She cast her vote and signed her name as her final act of a long life of service to others," her son said.

That's wonderful. Made me tear up a little.


Sparky1 - Oct 05, 2016 5:07:17 am PDT #28771 of 30003
Librarian Warlord

It's state-by-state, Kat. So in some places yes, in some places no.


Sue - Oct 05, 2016 5:15:10 am PDT #28772 of 30003
hip deep in pie

Sue, does Marshalls ballot count? I mean I don't know the rules on that.

I'm not sure how the election officials can monitor that. I'm sure there's lots circumstances where a person fills in an absentee ballot because they are too ill to go to the polls and then pass beforehand. But there are probably lots who are still alive come election day. ETA: I know almost nothing about US voting laws, so I have no idea what's allowed.


Sheryl - Oct 05, 2016 5:47:32 am PDT #28773 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Laura,

The foot's feeling a lot better. Whether that's due to the splint or the super-strength ibuprofen,I don't know, but it doesn't hurt much at all.


Dana - Oct 05, 2016 5:54:53 am PDT #28774 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Hooray for drugs.


-t - Oct 05, 2016 6:24:37 am PDT #28775 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Way to live, Gertrude!

Glad to hear the foot feels better, Sheryl.

So, in an effort to decrease decision fatigue while maintaining variety, I have a schedule of various breakfasts and today it came up Muffin. I do not have any muffins nor muffin surrogates in the house, and I'm not up for baking for work, but Panera is doing a daily free bagel thing this month so (you can guess where this is going) I have ordered a blueberry bagel for rapid pickup. Fuckos.


Jesse - Oct 05, 2016 6:28:46 am PDT #28776 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ha! Love that.

I also love my new rotating lunch schedule for similar reasons. If the Vietnamese place is in the rotating slots, I have that. If the line at the good salad place is short enough, I have that. It all works out quite well!


Laura - Oct 05, 2016 6:28:54 am PDT #28777 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

So my home likely will have a Cat 4 hurricane dancing around it the next couple days and I am 1500 miles away. So it is up to the boys to prep the house. Not getting a direct hit, but ~8" of rain and 90 mph winds. So probably losing power. Ugh, I have lots of fish in the freezer.

Still, I am so lucky. I have hurricane windows and shutters and a city parking garage where we can stash the vehicles. My heart breaks for the people in Haiti, Cuba, and the Bahamas. We have lots of friends and family in those places and they are frantic.