I hate that feeling that I'm a failure and thst every choice, large or small, forces me to choose whether to disappoint this person or that one because I am the instrument through which life let's them down.

Oh, I know that one. And I have hardly any obligations! You have lots, you can't do everything!

And now we're arguing about the purpose of the meeting.

Can you refuse to join meetings with no clear purpose or agenda?

I would like to understand why my cat only wants to party between 5 and 6am.

When I first got my cat, she had been living in a dorm, and she seemed to want to party between 1 am - 2 am, but she eventually got over it.

I am sorry Maria, Burrell, Dana and others who seem to be having sucky days.

I don't even know how people have families and obligations, because I can barely take care of me and my cat. Possibly if your life partner shoulders part of the load it is easier, but IRL I don't really know anyone in a good life partner situation.

Not even on task 3 and I am moving stuff around

Mac to band camp
Electricians at my house for work
Get outfit together
Errand to $$ store for GISHWHES items
Mac from band camp
Grocery store with mac for GISHWHES stuff I need him to take a picture of me
Fence people at house
Start bread for GISHWHES
Made up for another GISHWHES picture
Mac to reading class
Bake bread
Mac from reading class
pack Mac for trip (leaves tomorrow, early morning flight) to Uncle Gary's

Laser in the eye like it ain't no thang is the most metal thing ever.

Aw, I've never gotten to have a most metal thing ever. I feel nearly as badass as Christopher Lee.

That's a high bar!

I have the same problem with green tree, -t, plus they fucked up a few things over the years with the home insurance and such. Nothing huge, but annoying and always I am sure resulting in a little bit more money in their coffers than they've accounted for. We are getting a refi and getting away from them.

Heard from down the hallway: "You're not the Doctor! Don't try that wibbly-wobbly, timey-wimey stuff on me!"

Yeah, I seem to recall insurance difficulties, but nothing recent. I refied through Quicken Loans and green tree took my loan again afterwards! Annoyed me no end. I am way more irate about not being able to choose who holds my mortgage than I am ever gonna be about choosing or not choosing a doctor.

Oh, Burrell. I wish you didn't feel like that. Fat lot of good that does you, though!

I'm gonna have a talk with my boss today about moving some work around.

Sounds like the right call.