Zoe: Don't think it's a good spot, sir. She still has the advantage over us. Mal: Everyone always does. That's what makes us special.

'Serenity'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - Apr 25, 2016 12:41:06 pm PDT #20352 of 30003
Coding and Sleeping

Oh, the problem was that I haven't done anything to fix her old car yet. I was kinda holding off until we cleared some expenses and hoping to maybe fix it myself. She took her new car tonight at least. Maybe I can sneak a look at the mass airflow sensor tonight.Overall the car is running pretty well, but it is a little jerky when accelerating some of the time. Unfortunately it behaved perfectly when the mechanic took a look at it.


Steph L. - Apr 25, 2016 12:47:22 pm PDT #20353 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

She has TWO. CARS. Am I right? Two that are hers, not that she shares with you. So she can choose to drive the new one. She can choose from one of her TWO. CARS.

Someone is the asshole in this situation, Gud, and it's NOT YOU.

I implore you to get counseling, either with your wife or just you. You desperately need an objective party to sort out this relationship.


Gudanov - Apr 25, 2016 12:51:26 pm PDT #20354 of 30003
Coding and Sleeping

Atropa - Apr 25, 2016 12:54:57 pm PDT #20355 of 30003
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I implore you to get counseling, either with your wife or just you. You desperately need an objective party to sort out this relationship.

This. So much this. While couple's counseling would be ideal, you being able to see a counselor on your own so you can get some impartial feedback is just as important.

Gud, your wife is being unreasonable. That's not fair to you, and that's not fair to the kids.


askye - Apr 25, 2016 12:57:41 pm PDT #20356 of 30003
Thrive to spite them

I'm with Steph like a MILLION TIMES

She is using this as a weapon to beat you down.


msbelle - Apr 25, 2016 12:57:53 pm PDT #20357 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Drive the old car to a dealership and sell it. Done.


Steph L. - Apr 25, 2016 1:03:58 pm PDT #20358 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

If it's so important to her that the old car be fixed, let her take care of it. She's clearly able to drive a car, so she can drive the Sentra to a mechanic. Why does it have to be you?


Sheryl - Apr 25, 2016 1:19:54 pm PDT #20359 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

What the Buffistas said, Gud.

Meanwhile, my folks have left(very early this morning). Love them, but somehow it's more exhausting parenting when they're around(and Gary isn't) than parenting by myself.


Jesse - Apr 25, 2016 1:28:27 pm PDT #20360 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I actually think separate counseling for you, Gud, is even more important than going together. You've got to hear someone you trust say how effed up this all is. (I mean, it could just be us, but maybe better someone you pay.)


Sophia Brooks - Apr 25, 2016 2:41:04 pm PDT #20361 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

>At this point I'm just looking forward to going to sleep tonight, unfortunately I'll have to wake up.

Gud, this sentences terrifies me. You should not feel this way, and I think you do really need to seek some help- maybe starting with your PCP or your employee assisstance program, if you do not feel you have the energy to find a counselor?