And I myself will be wearing pink taffeta as chenille would not go with my complexion.

Giles ,'Touched'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Cass - Jun 02, 2026 6:12:24 pm PDT #3207 of 3219
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Norah is unbelievable to me. I just cannot.

But recently I came across a Tumblr RIP and I felt it then checked where it came from and it was ita.

I miss her. I miss everyone.


EpicTangent - Jun 17, 2026 3:35:04 pm PDT #3208 of 3219
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Norah is unbelievable to me. I just cannot.

Very much this. Unreal.


Laura - Jun 27, 2026 4:09:41 am PDT #3209 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Our hearts are filled with love and gratitude that JZ was born this day and was a part of our lives. Jacqueline is missed so much by so many today on her birthday, and every day.


erikaj - Jun 29, 2026 1:54:08 pm PDT #3210 of 3219
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Yes, absolutely. I know that she would be so proud that my writing is getting attention this summer. (Not that the only loss is my not having a cheerleader, but I think about that a lot.)


Laura - Jul 07, 2026 5:22:32 am PDT #3211 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Remembering Frankenbuddha on his birthday today. I always picture him in the bowler he wore at the Atlanta F2F.


Beverly - Jul 12, 2026 5:21:41 pm PDT #3212 of 3219
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I do too, Laura. RIP.


Laura - Aug 18, 2026 3:50:05 am PDT #3213 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Today we remember Amyth on her birthday. Was she a myth? No, she was warm and giving and is missed by so many.


erikaj - Aug 28, 2026 2:37:19 pm PDT #3214 of 3219
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

aw...I wish we could have spent more time together.


Laura - Oct 08, 2026 5:26:26 am PDT #3215 of 3219
This too shall pass.

Today we remember omnis_audis on his birthday. This morning, thinking about BC in my half-awake state, my mind went to thoughts of reincarnation. I really like the notion that the goodness of BC, and so many of our lost ones, remains and returns in another form, not lost forever. I'm just going to believe that it happens.


NoiseDesign - Oct 08, 2026 11:28:22 am PDT #3216 of 3219
Our wings are not tired

I will always miss BC. There are so many places that I visit throughout the year that are directly tied to him. Next time I'm at UCIrvine I'll get pictures of the room named for him, and the plaque in one of the theatres.

I'll also be designing Christmas Carol again this year at the theatre where he was the sound engineer for so many years. I can feel him in that space.