I've really got to learn to just do the damage and get out of town. It's the 'stay and gloat' that gets me every time.

Ethan Rayne ,'Potential'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Jessica - Aug 18, 2019 6:34:11 pm PDT #3005 of 3157
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It's very funny, but hard to laugh at.


P.M. Marc - Jan 13, 2020 5:03:07 pm PST #3006 of 3157
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

So who all was seriously jarred by Facebook memories feeding them a big old square of pink gingham with the information that it was five years ago?


Steph L. - Jan 13, 2020 5:06:34 pm PST #3007 of 3157
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

My FB memories hit me with the picture I posted of ita getting her custom action figure at the LA F2F, and that was a gut punch.

Also: how the FUCK has it been 5 years.


askye - Jan 13, 2020 5:26:07 pm PST #3008 of 3157
Thrive to spite them

I wasn't going to look at the memories today because I'm missing vermont and cold weather again and didn't want to feel that and then I thought "well I'll see what else happened"

And saw my post about ita. AND the first person who commented on it was my Mom's best friend who died last year.


-t - Jan 13, 2020 6:07:27 pm PST #3009 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah. 5 years, how can that be?


meara - Jan 13, 2020 7:47:38 pm PST #3010 of 3157

Yes, my FB memories were saddening today.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 14, 2020 5:57:02 am PST #3011 of 3157
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Thanks for the warning gang, I avoided facebook last night. Sad memories + migraine would not have been a good combination.


Dana - Jan 14, 2020 6:48:20 am PST #3012 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

If anyone wants to, you can hide memories for specific days or people.

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sj - Jan 14, 2020 11:11:21 am PST #3013 of 3157
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It doesn't seem possible that it was 5 years ago, but I was pregnant with ltc at the time. So, somehow the math works.


amyparker - Jan 28, 2020 7:46:16 am PST #3014 of 3157
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

In light of the most recent episode of Doctor Who and the mother of the actor in question being Jamaican, I thought "ita would be rampaging through the thread singing, and then looking for someone to make her a coat." And oh, the hunt for the right glasses . . . .