As Willow goes, so goes my nation.

Oz ,'Selfless'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Aims - Oct 18, 2016 6:29:56 am PDT #2659 of 3156
Shit's all sorts of different now.

dancing with her at Girlbar

OMG so much fun.


Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 18, 2016 6:51:16 am PDT #2660 of 3156
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

She really had a way of expressing "are you sure you've thought that opinion all the way through?" in a manner that made you rethink without diminishing you. I admired that very much.

Amen to that. I wish I could remain that calm and reasonable when questioning what other people say. It was a gift.


P.M. Marc - Oct 18, 2016 7:31:45 am PDT #2661 of 3156
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

When I think of ita, I remember dancing with her at Girlbar and her doing security at Allyson's LA event.

I can never see Djimon Hounsou without thinking of her because of the W&H event. (Given that he's in one of the movies I rewatch most frequently, well.)


P.M. Marc - Oct 18, 2016 7:34:44 am PDT #2662 of 3156
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Cereal: also, I frequently think of things she used to link to--not the freaky, creepy things, but shit like that one garnet set she linked to drooling over back in '02. Part of me has always kept an eye out, when doing my online window shopping, for similar pieces. It's reflex at this point.


Allyson - Oct 18, 2016 9:15:41 am PDT #2663 of 3156
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I have some of her garnet jewelry from Moji. I also have her pink gingham dress. I've been trying to figure out a craft project that I can do so I can send all of you a little piece of it. Trying to work it into a framed picture.


Beverly - Oct 18, 2016 9:19:11 am PDT #2664 of 3156
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

That's a lovely idea, Allyson. I would love that.

How are her family, do you know, and can you share? I miss hearing about them, and I hope they're all doing well.


Allyson - Oct 18, 2016 9:20:47 am PDT #2665 of 3156
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Me too. I emailed Moji but haven't heard back. I'll try her mom.


Amy - Oct 18, 2016 10:01:41 am PDT #2666 of 3156
Because books.

Oh, Allyson, I love that idea.

I want to do something similar with the SPN shirts of hers you all sent to me. Maybe a pillow or something. Or maybe a tote bag? My sewing skills are not great, though.


Burrell - Oct 18, 2016 10:05:23 am PDT #2667 of 3156
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh noes, I hope they are okay. (worry worry worry)


-t - Oct 18, 2016 10:21:11 am PDT #2668 of 3156
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Still have various t-shirts and ties set aside to make a quilt. Not any further than that in the project, but it will happen eventually. First I need to clear enough space to spread it all out and look at it all at once, which will take some doing.