Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.

Jayne ,'Jaynestown'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Atropa - Jan 13, 2015 4:00:39 pm PST #198 of 3159
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oh, man. Thank god it's not just me, and that one kept hitting me last night and today because I DISAGREE SO MUCH.

The hivemind is strong on some things, because that was one of the things I kept coming back to.


esse - Jan 13, 2015 4:04:07 pm PST #199 of 3159
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Whilst taking a much-needed buff-dive, I came across this sage knowledge from Ginger:

Ginger: My stages of grief are Denial, Google, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance.


Burrell - Jan 13, 2015 4:06:18 pm PST #200 of 3159
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh damn, I am just so sad. I've been trying to put off feeling sad, but I can't put it off anymore.


Kat - Jan 13, 2015 4:08:06 pm PST #201 of 3159
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I was thinking about her old apartment, with that random glass box room.

And the fruitcake which ALWAYS masqueraded as chocolate.

And her sleeping with a stuffed moose.


Kat - Jan 13, 2015 4:11:20 pm PST #202 of 3159
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Oh my god! And the gun in that cabinet at the house in Catalina.


Burrell - Jan 13, 2015 4:17:13 pm PST #203 of 3159
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Loved that glass room. It was such a set piece.

She made me sorrel once, or rather she let me take home a jug of sorrel to taste. It was delicious.

She took photos of me once when I was pregnant, with Franny. Known as Buffistina at that time.


Sean K - Jan 13, 2015 4:22:02 pm PST #204 of 3159
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I'm glad I got to eat her delicious baked goods a couple of times.


bon bon - Jan 13, 2015 4:22:35 pm PST #205 of 3159
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I just hate that this is replacing her in my brain. This "tragedy" which just feels so stupid to say.


Susan W. - Jan 13, 2015 4:22:55 pm PST #206 of 3159
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Another long-absentee checking in. I saw the news on Facebook this morning, and all day this community has been at the very forefront of my thoughts. Such a shock. Such a loss.


Cashmere - Jan 13, 2015 4:25:08 pm PST #207 of 3159
Now tagless for your comfort.

I am not angry. There is just a big hole. An empty space where she should be. And that gaping hole keeps making me sad all over again.