Hey, evil dead, you're in my seat.

Xander ,'First Date'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Anne W. - Jan 13, 2015 3:24:08 pm PST #189 of 3153
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Disagreeing with ita was an education in itself.

This is true. I have some semi-cringey memories of getting into it with her a bit over in the SPN thread (I had not comported myself well, to put things mildly). She was always good at giving - and demanding - explanations for a position. For someone who is naturally conflict avoidant, it was valuable to learn that disagreement didn't necessarily mean censure.

My fondest memories of her were from this fall, when she emailed me draft after draft of artwork for a SPN Big Bang as she worked to get them as perfect as she could make them.


JZ - Jan 13, 2015 3:24:37 pm PST #190 of 3153
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Rick, that is a beautiful poem.


vw bug - Jan 13, 2015 3:29:33 pm PST #191 of 3153
Mostly lurking...

Allyson: When you see 300 pairs of footprints in the sand, that was when Buffistas were carrying you.

Gutted.

Yes.


Zenkitty - Jan 13, 2015 3:32:03 pm PST #192 of 3153
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, man. Thank god it's not just me, and that one kept hitting me last night and today because I DISAGREE SO MUCH.

Oh, Plei, me too! I was looking forward to arguing with her about it. I mean, having a lively discussion.


brenda m - Jan 13, 2015 3:38:29 pm PST #193 of 3153
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Has alibelle checked in or been contacted?


shrift - Jan 13, 2015 3:41:52 pm PST #194 of 3153
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I've been digging around in boxes for photographs and looking at random unlabeled CDs, but not finding pictures of ita that I remember having. This is going to turn into a quest where I resurrect ancient computers, look at old 3.5in floppies, and excavate boxes from my parents' basement.


Tom Scola - Jan 13, 2015 3:43:00 pm PST #195 of 3153
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Has alibelle checked in or been contacted?

Alibelle "Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter" Jan 13, 2015 6:55:20 am PST


meara - Jan 13, 2015 3:58:06 pm PST #196 of 3153

Thank you everyone for the poetry, it's really great.

It's an obvious choice, I guess. But she would have approved of the spelling, and that should count for something.

Oh man, Rick, this just made me smile through my brimming eyes.


brenda m - Jan 13, 2015 3:59:41 pm PST #197 of 3153
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Thanks Tom.


Atropa - Jan 13, 2015 4:00:39 pm PST #198 of 3153
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oh, man. Thank god it's not just me, and that one kept hitting me last night and today because I DISAGREE SO MUCH.

The hivemind is strong on some things, because that was one of the things I kept coming back to.