Buffy: How was school today? Dawn: The usual. A big square building filled with boredom and despair. Buffy: Just how I remember it.

'The Killer In Me'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


quester - Jan 25, 2015 6:09:53 pm PST #1341 of 3157
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Damn where is that "like" button.


Glamcookie - Jan 25, 2015 6:45:51 pm PST #1342 of 3157
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

The obituary is lovely. Continued warm thoughts to LAistas.


Lee - Jan 25, 2015 7:45:53 pm PST #1343 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I just got home, and while I have gone through the Facebook comments and tried to answer questions, anything more than that is going to wait until tomorrow. Burrell and I did hit up Fedex on the way to the airport, so I should have the box of stuff by Wednesday.


Burrell - Jan 25, 2015 7:48:25 pm PST #1344 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Glad you got home safe and sound, Lee.


Lee - Jan 25, 2015 7:55:36 pm PST #1345 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Thank you so much for putting me up for the night on Saturday. It was great getting to hang out with you again.


Burrell - Jan 25, 2015 8:13:38 pm PST #1346 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yes, me too. Need to hang more.

That was kind of the take home message: need to see people more


erin_obscure - Jan 25, 2015 8:14:51 pm PST #1347 of 3157
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

The obit is marvelous, for a 'make me cry at work' value of marvelous. Very well written.

JZ- yea

Pix- I think that would be lovely (and might even be able to bank up a couple days worth of vacation time given a few months.)

Allyson- your hair is the shiniest.

Lee and Burrell and LAistas doing all the things- your eyes are like shiny stars


WindSparrow - Jan 25, 2015 8:31:20 pm PST #1348 of 3157
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

JZ, yea

My grieving loves, be gentle with yourselves. May your sleep be healing and sweet.


Allyson - Jan 25, 2015 9:27:28 pm PST #1349 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Polgara did everything for the brunch. Hec provided the music, Kristen did flower arrangements, and Polgara made these awesome photo cubes that the family took home to use at the service in Jamaica.

I sat on my lazy ass and did nothing.

Polgara made a photo slide show of pictures of ita to play on the laptop next to the guest book. ita's father stood in front of it for a very long time, watching pictures of his daughter slip by on the screen.

I got to snuggle with bon bon's baby boy for awhile, and that was the best therapy I could have had. He's such a cheery little fellow.


DavidS - Jan 25, 2015 10:11:15 pm PST #1350 of 3157
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Bon baby snuggling is good for your soul.