Right, what's a little sweater sniffing between sworn enemies?

Riley ,'Sleeper'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


SailAweigh - Jan 25, 2015 11:34:46 am PST #1297 of 3157
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Yea, big time.


Zenkitty - Jan 25, 2015 11:34:52 am PST #1298 of 3157
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I say Yea, JZ.


Beverly - Jan 25, 2015 11:35:27 am PST #1299 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Oh, yes, this desperately needs doing.


JZ - Jan 25, 2015 11:42:45 am PST #1300 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

So, attacking it practically - maybe threadsuck and scan for the appropriate posts, then copy 'em and send them in to one collector, or post to a Dropbox account so people can drop in and out and do a bit at a time as they have the spoons? We could divide up the Natters and everyone who wants to tackle the task do one or two threads to start and see how onerous or not it is?


Nilly - Jan 25, 2015 11:55:12 am PST #1301 of 3157
Swouncing

gathering all her Natter updates about being bounced

JZ, if we go with this idea, I can at least help with the gathering. Finally, something I can help with.

t back to catching up

[Edit: no, wait. First: thank you, all of you, for all you've been doing. Especially the LA crew, Now, back to catching up.]


Vortex - Jan 25, 2015 11:56:18 am PST #1302 of 3157
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

That is a very core sense of ita that I have from my interactions with her.

Which is exactly why you should have it.

I like many of the things posted, but I want them to go to someone for whom they have greater meaning than "something owned by someone I loved".


Allyson - Jan 25, 2015 12:57:23 pm PST #1303 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Thank you so much to Polgara for the beautiful brunch and memorial. It was so perfect, and jst flawlessly done. I know how hard this was and you made it look so warm and effortless.


Pix - Jan 25, 2015 1:00:08 pm PST #1304 of 3157
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Brunch was completely heartbreaking and utterly wonderful and perfect, and Polgara, Allyson, Burrell, Kristen and all the others involved in coordinating it outdid themselves. ita's family are amazing people; I'm so grateful for having been able to thank them for sharing her with us.

This isn't something we need to decide now, but I'd like to share something that I've been feeling a lot today. There's been talk of having a second memorial service so others could come into town and celebrate her life, especially Buffistas from afar, and initially mid-February had been tossed out. But I think the LAistas who have been immersed in this so deeply need some time. They have been endless sources of strength and love for ita and her family over the past two weeks while also dealing with their own grief, and I can see how difficult it has been for them. I wonder if perhaps we could have a gathering this summer -- maybe in July -- for Buffistas who want to come to LA to meet and celebrate ita's life. I know Polgara said she can't imagine coordinating anything else right now, and I'm happy to take it on if it would help. Not a F2F with all the requisite silliness and debauchery, but a weekend for people to gather to share stories and maybe light some candles on the beach. That might give people who want to come but can't swing travel on short notice a chance to plan and save.

Anyway, I wanted to throw that idea out there.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 25, 2015 1:01:52 pm PST #1305 of 3157
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Love and support winging its way to you guys through the intertubes.

JZ, I think that's an excellent idea provided ita's family agrees.


Lee - Jan 25, 2015 1:02:18 pm PST #1306 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

We figured out how sending ita's stuff to people is going to happen, which is that one of the LAistas is going to put them all in a box and send them to me, and then I will distribute them. I probably won't be able to sort things out today but I will in the next few days and then I will be in touch with some of you to get addresses.