Wash: Well, I wash my hands of it. It's a hopeless case. I'll read a nice poem at the funeral. Something with imagery. Zoe: You could lock the door and keep the power-hungry maniac at bay. Wash: Oh, no, I'm starting to like this poetry idea now. Here lies my beloved Zoe, my autumn flower, somewhat less attractive now she's all corpsified and gross...

'Shindig'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Mar 26, 2015 5:43:58 am PDT #22996 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Hey, what's that website that has great advice about worklife/job stuff for women??

There's a job listing I'm interested in responding to but the listing says:

All candidates must include a cover letter identifying their specific business analyst experience as it relates to the job description along with salary requirements.

I know I've seen good advice about how to approach requests for salary requirements in the early stages of the hiring process but I can't remember where! And the whole idea of writing a cover letter is filling me with terror so am stalling until I find that advice!


brenda m - Mar 26, 2015 5:44:19 am PDT #22997 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

You know when you can't ever type a particular word correctly even though you know how to spell it?

My fingers always want to put a b in numerous even though my brain knows it doesn't belong.


flea - Mar 26, 2015 5:51:42 am PDT #22998 of 30000
information libertarian

jounral. Which comes up very frequently when you work at an academic library.


Jesse - Mar 26, 2015 5:54:10 am PDT #22999 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

What?!? That is bananas. Not the meet-ups, the physical confrontation at work. The meet-ups sound like a good idea!

Edit: Clearly I didn't refresh the page! That was for msbelle, obviously.


Jesse - Mar 26, 2015 5:57:29 am PDT #23000 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I know I've seen good advice about how to approach requests for salary requirements in the early stages of the hiring process but I can't remember where!

Try askamanager? In my position, I've never had a problem being ballsy about it, but my job involves asking for money! Even with my person I'm promoting, I was afraid my boss would be pissed about what she asked for, but no. She's not getting it, but my boss agreed with me on appreciating the moxie.


brenda m - Mar 26, 2015 6:10:21 am PDT #23001 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Ooh, that is drama.

My sis gave notice at her job yesterday, several weeks sooner than she planned to. She had to sign and email a contract to the new job, and used the scanner at work. Then a client needed her attention, and by the time she went back to delete it from the scanner someone had put a hold on the doc so that only an administrator could delete it! Most likely her toxic boss, who is big part of why she needs out of that place so bad anyway. She was panicking that she was going to be fired over it.

I told her to go straight inside and send a meeting request to her boss and grandboss and give her notice right away - get out in front of it instead of waiting for boss to react.

Grandboss was supportive, boss was snippy in a way that made it clear she had seen the doc and (I believe) probably was just waiting for the end of the day to fire her.

Phew. Her end date is not for six weeks and she really needs the income up until then. And not for nothing it's certainly satisfying that she snatched her boss's gotcha moment away.


Jesse - Mar 26, 2015 6:32:40 am PDT #23002 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ooh, that stuff is always so fraught! Glad she got in front of it, and has the six weeks.


lisah - Mar 26, 2015 6:44:24 am PDT #23003 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Try askamanager?

Yes! That was it. I knew Jesse would know.

I'm not really afraid of asking but I don't want to price myself out too early. I'd actually be willing to take less than I make now, if I thought the position was worth it. But I don't want to undersell myself either.

Well played, Brenda's sister!


amych - Mar 26, 2015 6:45:11 am PDT #23004 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

You know when you can't ever type a particular word correctly even though you know how to spell it?

Browswer. For years now. Yes, I am a web developer.


shrift - Mar 26, 2015 6:49:43 am PDT #23005 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Yikes with the drama llama work stuff!

The problem with getting to the office so early is that I am already starving. I think I need a snack because I'm starting to get cranky and growl at my inbox.