Everyone's getting spanked but me.

Willow ,'The Killer In Me'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - May 29, 2014 5:11:44 pm PDT #28736 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Yay to the last of coumadin, Kat! I don't have a clue about the hot flashes, though.

a "fidget piece," which for the last 30 years has been a spoon-shaped piece of wood about 1" x 2" originally intended to be a keychain fob. It helps me deal with anxiety and nervous energy.

Yes, this, exactly.

We are a collective of knowledge and experience. I come here first, usually, if I need to know things.

Happy to hear no stroke, tommy. And a funny doctor is rare and must be kept. Unless he screws up otherwise. (I love that poem, -t!)

I'm glad the guy found you, ita. It sounds like a very good working arrangement for both of you. Plus, a little fun and fan stuff.

Suzi--that's really good effort on CJ's behalf, I'm glad the Adderall is helping. It's so hard to feel you never make any progress, no matter how hard you try.


Sophia Brooks - May 29, 2014 5:15:13 pm PDT #28737 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Kat, I don't know, but I have it too.


Amy - May 29, 2014 5:18:55 pm PDT #28738 of 30000
Because books.

Sadly, that's a yes, Kat.


Kat - May 29, 2014 5:55:56 pm PDT #28739 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Hmmm... interesting. It sort of blows, but is perhaps better than hotflashes.


msbelle - May 29, 2014 5:56:02 pm PDT #28740 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Y'all I have been so angry for like the last month. Like every little thing can set me off. I am so frustrated with everything and everyone and only goes away for a few hours or a day or two at most. I'm thinking hormones, but I can't get to dr for at least 2 weeks. I am off ads and used my last bc pills last week.

Thoughts?


msbelle - May 29, 2014 5:56:03 pm PDT #28741 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Amy - May 29, 2014 6:00:55 pm PDT #28742 of 30000
Because books.

Is there some way you can blow off steam that you enjoy? Maybe some kind of exercise? Something to sort of physically work the bad stuff out?

Hmmm... interesting. It sort of blows, but is perhaps better than hotflashes.

I'm still not sure I've ever had an actual hot flash, and I remember a friend from upstate New York who would sit with a spray water bottle and mist herself during writing group when it got bad. I've never had anything like that.

But the night sweating comes and goes, and if I get overheated during the day it seems hard to turn it off.


Ginger - May 29, 2014 6:17:59 pm PDT #28743 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I just learned that there is a felony of "egregious littering." That's what they charged a guy who has been burying construction debris and equipment on his land and his neighbor's for years. So far, they've dug some pits as deep as 25 feet without getting below the junk.


Amy - May 29, 2014 6:23:18 pm PDT #28744 of 30000
Because books.

Holy crap, Ginger. It seems so counter-productive, too. Carting it away would be so much simpler.


Atropa - May 29, 2014 6:30:07 pm PDT #28745 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

What I think you're speaking of are talismans, personal objects of significance, no matter their origin.

I think at this point Clovis has gone beyond being a talisman to being a tulpa. But other than my own version of the Velveteen Rabbit (WITHOUT THE PART THAT MAKES ME SOB, THANKS), there's the necklace with the silver keys and ankh that I always wear.

I always carry what I call a "fidget piece," which for the last 30 years has been a spoon-shaped piece of wood about 1" x 2" originally intended to be a keychain fob. It helps me deal with anxiety and nervous energy.

There's a reason I almost always wear a long necklace with some sort of pendant, in addition to the smaller necklace of keys and ankh.