I sometimes wish I could fight with him to work some of it out harmlessly.
That actually works? When I have an actual fight with Hubby, the bad feeling lingers and gets added to whatever sparked the fight.
What is your childhood trauma?
Cordelia ,'Lessons'
Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Connie Neil - Mar 20, 2014 9:59:00 am PDT #22857 of 30000
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msbelle - Mar 20, 2014 10:20:11 am PDT #22858 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
24 oz bag of salad is my lunch. I need to grill some chicken tonight so I have protein to add to these.
Trudy Booth - Mar 20, 2014 10:34:13 am PDT #22859 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Anger has its place. I wasn't allowed to be angry. My mother will deny up and down that she is angry to this day. It's not a great approach.
Trudy Booth - Mar 20, 2014 10:35:13 am PDT #22860 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
msbelle - Mar 20, 2014 10:40:15 am PDT #22861 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
my boss is cleaning out his desk y'all!! omg, such a good day.
-t - Mar 20, 2014 10:52:54 am PDT #22862 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
BTW, feeling uncomfortable and or afraid around people expressing anger, also valid feelings.
I am such a Californian in some ways.
Scrappy - Mar 20, 2014 10:58:16 am PDT #22863 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
BTW, feeling uncomfortable and or afraid around people expressing anger, also valid feelings
Absolutely.
Zenkitty - Mar 20, 2014 12:05:53 pm PDT #22864 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
I am uncomfortable and or afraid around people expressing anger, and yet? I am SO ANGRY myself. I think most of my depression/anxiety is from not being able to deal with my own anger.
msbelle - Mar 20, 2014 12:07:40 pm PDT #22865 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I recommend certain martial arts and boxing classes for getting out anger. Punching a big bag is GOOD TIMES.
Liese S. - Mar 20, 2014 12:12:09 pm PDT #22866 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
In one of our neighboring towns, I recently discovered that my favorite barista is also a krav maga instructor. The SO's therapist is in that town, so I joked that we'd go there and he could do talk therepy and I could hit people and we'd both come out happier.