I'm a big girl. Just tell me.

Inara ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Dec 20, 2013 5:34:13 am PST #15092 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm so sorry msbelle. My heart goes out to your whole family. Death is just so hard. Your response to mac's anger is just so on target and loving and beautiful.


Burrell - Dec 20, 2013 5:35:47 am PST #15093 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Hearing the Bowie/Crosby version of LDB is always winning in my book. It's still losing the LDB game.


Fred Pete - Dec 20, 2013 5:38:47 am PST #15094 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

Good wishes, msbelle and family. We went through that extended not-quite-comatose-but-not-quite-responsive stagewith my mother-in-law. It's truly surreal for the family.


Theodosia - Dec 20, 2013 5:43:35 am PST #15095 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

My rule is that if you recognize it, you lost. Even if it's just one "rump a tum tum" or whatever.


Hil R. - Dec 20, 2013 5:45:20 am PST #15096 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

My rule is that if you recognize it, you lost. Even if it's just one "rump a tum tum" or whatever.

Yeah, this is how I lost while flipping through radio stations.


lisah - Dec 20, 2013 6:02:54 am PST #15097 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Hearing the Bowie/Crosby version of LDB is always winning in my book. It's still losing the LDB game.

These are my feelings as well.

Sending you guys love, msbelle. I hope there are some moments of peace and lightness during this process for your family.


Trudy Booth - Dec 20, 2013 6:10:30 am PST #15098 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Next year I'm instituting a Fairytale of New York game. You win that one by hearing it the most without intentionally putting it on.

In the spirit of Christmas you can put it on to up other people's scores.


Kat - Dec 20, 2013 6:32:48 am PST #15099 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I'm so sorry, msbelle. I wish there were easier ways to say goodbye to people we love.


Hil R. - Dec 20, 2013 9:46:58 am PST #15100 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I submitted final grades for the semester. So far, two emails from students who want to negotiate their grades. I'm figuring I'll probably get two or three more by the end of the day.


Jesse - Dec 20, 2013 9:49:39 am PST #15101 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I just interviewed two people, and remembered one of my issues as an interviewer: When I like the person, I'm done in 20 minutes. Which doesn't really seem fair to the person who came all this way...