and if you are doing stuff - you are not failing , you just not making everyone happy at the same time
Spike: Lots of fuss over one girl. Other things to do around here--important things. Angel: You know that whoosh thing you do when you're suddenly not there anymore? I love that.
'Unleashed'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Feb 04, 2014 6:23:57 am PST #8885 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Steph L. - Feb 04, 2014 6:25:21 am PST #8886 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
It's okay. I'm fine. I'm doing stuff. It's okay.
Steph L. - Feb 04, 2014 6:28:07 am PST #8887 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Sorry. It's okay. It'll be fine. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for losing my shit. It's okay.
beth b - Feb 04, 2014 6:30:28 am PST #8888 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Where else, Steph? If I lived near you I'd wash your dishes and take Kato for a walk . I won't edit for you - because we all know that would be scary.
I'm getting off line , but I'l check in later
Tom Scola - Feb 04, 2014 6:30:52 am PST #8889 of 30002
hwæt
Steph, as far as we're concerned, you're quite welcome to lose your shit whenever you want.
Steph L. - Feb 04, 2014 6:32:48 am PST #8890 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
It's fine. I'm sorry.
Ginger - Feb 04, 2014 6:34:57 am PST #8891 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Do not be sorry. The first rule of Bitches is that venting about anything at any time is not an imposition on anyone.
Steph L. - Feb 04, 2014 6:36:48 am PST #8892 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
It's fine. I'm sorry. It's all fine. It's okay.
Amy - Feb 04, 2014 6:38:15 am PST #8893 of 30002
Because books.
Steph, you don't have to apologize. I know those moments when it's all pressing in and it feels insurmountable are really scary, too. Don't worry about us -- be sure you're okay and calm(ish) now. If not, call one of us, okay?
brenda m - Feb 04, 2014 6:41:47 am PST #8894 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Steph, please please freak out all you want. Or need.
You're not fine. But that's okay. It is okay to be not fine.