Aims, I would love to send a card to Emeline too. Does Em have a least one really good friend who doesn't give a damn about what the other kids think? Because I found that this made all the difference for me.
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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
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She does. She has a few in her class and her Girl Scouts.
Em has so many people in her corner. That does make such a huge difference.
Aims, send me her address - I have a HUGE supply of cards (funny cards, pretty cards) that I could send her. Does she have a favorite animal? cat or dog? bunnies?
Should I keep an eye out for a purse? Would she be too old for a puppy/kitten purse?
People have been praising me for being so strong, which I find weird. I mean, what are my options, abandoning him in a crisis? Not helping him with scheduling treatments and transport? I don't think it's strong to be doing--and not doing--what I think any honorable spouse should be doing--and not doing--in such a situation. And I never know what hte proper response to "Oh, you're so strong!" is. Thank you? The attempt at a gracious, depreciating smile I've been using? I think I'd rather have a well-meaning "You're in my prayers" to praise.
Oh, yeah, Connie. I got that. Sometimes I wanted to say "well you didn't see me in a crying heap on my kitchen floor yesterday." Mostly I stuck with "thanks."
People have been praising me for being so strong, which I find weird. I mean, what are my options, abandoning him in a crisis? Not helping him with scheduling treatments and transport? I don't think it's strong to be doing--and not doing--what I think any honorable spouse should be doing--and not doing--in such a situation.
There are plenty of people who abandon their loved ones, literally or emotionally, when things get too tough for them to deal. Strong isn't not crying in a heap on the floor; it's getting up again and doing what you need to. I know lots of people who are just not emotionally capable of dealing with overwhelmingly scary things.
Amiee, my heart breaks for Em, but I'm so glad she's got the mother and father she's got, and friends that will stick with her.
Does Em have any on-line peeps? I know my childhood would have been a different world if I had.
Aims, I'd love to send Em a card.
Toddson - She actually has a bunch of purses. And she loves lions and dogs and cats and horses and bunnies and basically any animal, as is fitting for a 9 year old.