Wash: Mal, your dead army buddy's on the bridge! Zoe: He ain't dead. Wash: Oh.

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DCJensen - Jan 12, 2014 10:18:13 am PST #8083 of 30002
All is well that ends in pizza.

At least it lets you avoid the whole 8675309 thing.


aurelia - Jan 12, 2014 10:58:06 am PST #8084 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I had one teacher who insisted on calling me Regina. She could not accept that there is no Re- in my name. I will answer to "Yo, G!" though.

I would never presume to use nicknames that a person's family uses.


meara - Jan 12, 2014 11:17:42 am PST #8085 of 30002

I was always sad my name had no real nicknames. But now I have three names! (Real name, meara, and Indy, my drag name). Works for me. I answer to all of them.

I need to get off the couch and go shopping. Golden Globes tonight--dress watch!


JenP - Jan 12, 2014 11:24:56 am PST #8086 of 30002

At least it lets you avoid the whole 8675309 thing.

Sort of...people go broad with that one. Fortunately, don't hear it much these days.


Laura - Jan 12, 2014 11:57:22 am PST #8087 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

My mom is one of those people who has a million nicknames for everyone, including the dog.

I am that person with my family. Mostly Bobby and the dog get it. Boberino, Bobbedo, Bobbo, Bobster, and so forth.


smonster - Jan 12, 2014 12:40:45 pm PST #8088 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ugh. I just got a stern talking to by my boss. Apparently, all of my coworkers are very frustrated with my lack of punctuality. I get it. It sucks. I suck. It's not like an office job where you can just stay late. It affects everyone, especially this last job when we were carpooling. And apparently there are other things, I think I know some of them but we'll see what they say. I've sent an email apologizing and asking for their input.

I'm just so ashamed and frustrated. That I suck so bad with time, that I can't get up (hi, I go to bed earlier than all those bitches every night), that nobody brought these things up with me before taking them to our boss (E did once a year ago). I hate being a person no one can trust. I don't trust myself.

I'm dreading work tomorrow. It's hard to know that your coworkers question whether or not you are fit enough mentally and physically to do your job. They like me, but they don't trust me. And I don't blame them.

I don't even know what I need right now. I have to get ready for tomorrow and I'm a total mess. Maybe I'll give myself an hour to wallow and then get up. Oh, and if anyone can give me a consistent wake up call at 5:30 am Central Time at least for a couple of weeks, you'd have my undying gratitude and possibly some goodies from New Orleans.


flea - Jan 12, 2014 12:47:22 pm PST #8089 of 30002
information libertarian

If 5:30 am CST is 6:30 am EST, I would be happy to call you. I am always up by then. Email me your digits.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 12, 2014 1:28:06 pm PST #8090 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ugh, smonster, I'm sorry. I can't believe that your boss can give YOU a talking to what with all the flaky shit he pulls. Oh, well, it's different I guess when you're the boss.

I hope your co-workers respond to your request for feedback in a kinder way than running to the boss behind your back.


sj - Jan 12, 2014 2:35:18 pm PST #8091 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

smonster, I'm sorry. I'm like that too, and it can just be so difficult to try to break the pattern.


smonster - Jan 12, 2014 3:20:57 pm PST #8092 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

flea, it is and insent.

Nora, he did cop to the fact that he's heard some hard truths from my coworkers and his friends and family. But yeah... it's not like HE's figured out how to get places on time. I feel pretty hurt, and the one thing I felt comfortable that I was good at (being the client point person) has been taken away from me on the next job. E is an introvert, and I respect that, but I don't know if there's a faster way to do something or if she thinks I need to spend less time doing x or more doing y if she doesn't tell me. Ugh.

sj, it fucking sucks. I so wish I were the type of person to pop awake and be awake. And that I was better with time. And and and...